General Chat

Hi Shaz, hope things are looking better this morning hun. I agree with the majority, you have to talk to your hubby. It's the only way if you want to make things work.

Shaz I totally understand where you're coming from, I'm there myself at the moment. I would ask what someone else has alread said - 'does he have someone else'. I've asked mine, which unfortunately, for me, lead to another issue we don't talk about. I never did get a proper answer. I do hope you feel better this morning and that you can take that step foward towards sorting the issues out.

if one partner has said that they have no love for the other and wants to end the relationship then i think the relationship will not survive.been there tried it and it just doesn't work.you just end up becoming enemiesxxxxxxxxx(:

Hi Shaz I sounded very short in my first reply, I also misinterpreted the title I thought you meant literally - how do you know, and what I meant was you have a gut feeling inside, but I too have been there and it isn't as simple as that. At the end of the day if you think its' over but you don't want it to be, try and keep it but like Diana says keep hold of your dignity, that's hard cos my dignity goes out of the window when I think I am in trouble. If you think it's over and think that's the best thing then put things in motion asap cos there's no point in prolonging it. It isn't easy though hun, I wouldn't want to be in that position again. Thank God I don't think I ever will be. G xxx

Hi Shaz, Really feel for you and hope everything works out for you. You could always try Relate - even if he won't go you can still go on your own and maybe talking to professionals will help you sort things out in your own mind at least. Kxx