General Chat

no probs babe.if you need a shoulder you know where i am.love and hugsxxxxxx(:

Time will heal.. hope things work out for you, sending a big hug your way... Lizzy. X

Steph you say he has just finished paying for your engagement ring, just think if you had got as far as the wedding, that happend to me, I had my dress and the cake was 1 week away from being made, then he decided that it was wrong to go ahead with the big day. :( Bev

Hi Steph Puss, Sorry to hear your news. I did a similar thing myself about 7 years ago and now with hindsight feel I did the right thing. If I hadn't done it I wouldn't have met my husband. Fate works in strange ways. Never regret anything. Love & hugs Naomi x

Oh Sweetie, big hug for you ((((((((((BIG HUG)))))))))) Don't know what else I can do for you. Love Wendy

Oh sweetie! WIll give you a massive hug in person tomorrow but until then my words will have to do. There's obviously something in the air this week but look on the bright side... you could have been dumped for some 17 yr old tart!!!!! Please believe me when I say things will get easier, I'm there for you every step of the way just like you've been there for me and I truly believe we'll make it. All my love becx

Oh Babe,I do know how you must be feeling, but you must of known deep down that it wasnt going to work, thats why you did what you did. I think you are very brave to make that decision and yes time is a great healer. Lots of Love Jo xx

Steph, even though we've never met and others on here have never met you, you've told us a lot about you and Dave - and I've always thought you two sounded like chalk and cheese! There's no doubt he's a nice bloke and obviously very dear to you. But there was obviously something wrong in the relationship, and there's nothing to stop you being friends in the future. He might not think that at the moment, but give it time. Lucky you did it now rather than after the wedding, eh? Lotsaluv and hugs, Glenys x

Steph, You have lots of friends on here to support you, take them up with their offers of shoulders to lean on, e mail them, phone them or whatever, you need to talk right now. we can'tknow if you have done the right thing or not, only you know that. But I do wish you all the best, stay friends with him and I am sure that someone is out there just waiting to bump into you when you least expect it. be happy Steph, you have your whole life in front of you and so does Dave. Remember the good times and think of those times as part of the tapestry of your lives. Love Ann glos

Thank yousomuch everyone! i have chatted to himon the phone, as i think i have said, i amgoing over there tomoro to move my stuff back home...then seeing him sunday as its my nan and gramps golden anniv party and he is coming.Just gotta get this weekend over and done with.....and im so grateful for your support! xxxx

steedie thats so sad , but dont think of the material things like your ring, think of you and maybe you could tell my daughter one day when your feeling stronger , just how strong youve been by doing what you know to be the best , for you and dave, enjoy the party at the weekend and look forward not back stay strong

Hi Steph, not been around for couple of days so I missed this. Sorry to hear your sad news. Be positive and look forward to a new start in the New Year. Make sure you focus on yourself now, pampering needs to be the order of the day. Get in touch with your girl friends and have a laugh. If you want to chat to an old codger who's been there and done that then catch me on MSN!!! Maz. XX