General Chat

Hi Steph, not been around for couple of days so I missed this. Sorry to hear your sad news. Be positive and look forward to a new start in the New Year. Make sure you focus on yourself now, pampering needs to be the order of the day. Get in touch with your girl friends and have a laugh. If you want to chat to an old codger who's been there and done that then catch me on MSN!!! Maz. XX

steedie thats so sad , but dont think of the material things like your ring, think of you and maybe you could tell my daughter one day when your feeling stronger , just how strong youve been by doing what you know to be the best , for you and dave, enjoy the party at the weekend and look forward not back stay strong

Thank yousomuch everyone! i have chatted to himon the phone, as i think i have said, i amgoing over there tomoro to move my stuff back home...then seeing him sunday as its my nan and gramps golden anniv party and he is coming.Just gotta get this weekend over and done with.....and im so grateful for your support! xxxx

Steph, You have lots of friends on here to support you, take them up with their offers of shoulders to lean on, e mail them, phone them or whatever, you need to talk right now. we can'tknow if you have done the right thing or not, only you know that. But I do wish you all the best, stay friends with him and I am sure that someone is out there just waiting to bump into you when you least expect it. be happy Steph, you have your whole life in front of you and so does Dave. Remember the good times and think of those times as part of the tapestry of your lives. Love Ann glos

Steph, even though we've never met and others on here have never met you, you've told us a lot about you and Dave - and I've always thought you two sounded like chalk and cheese! There's no doubt he's a nice bloke and obviously very dear to you. But there was obviously something wrong in the relationship, and there's nothing to stop you being friends in the future. He might not think that at the moment, but give it time. Lucky you did it now rather than after the wedding, eh? Lotsaluv and hugs, Glenys x

Oh Babe,I do know how you must be feeling, but you must of known deep down that it wasnt going to work, thats why you did what you did. I think you are very brave to make that decision and yes time is a great healer. Lots of Love Jo xx

Oh sweetie! WIll give you a massive hug in person tomorrow but until then my words will have to do. There's obviously something in the air this week but look on the bright side... you could have been dumped for some 17 yr old tart!!!!! Please believe me when I say things will get easier, I'm there for you every step of the way just like you've been there for me and I truly believe we'll make it. All my love becx

Oh Sweetie, big hug for you ((((((((((BIG HUG)))))))))) Don't know what else I can do for you. Love Wendy

Hi Steph Puss, Sorry to hear your news. I did a similar thing myself about 7 years ago and now with hindsight feel I did the right thing. If I hadn't done it I wouldn't have met my husband. Fate works in strange ways. Never regret anything. Love & hugs Naomi x

Steph you say he has just finished paying for your engagement ring, just think if you had got as far as the wedding, that happend to me, I had my dress and the cake was 1 week away from being made, then he decided that it was wrong to go ahead with the big day. :( Bev

Time will heal.. hope things work out for you, sending a big hug your way... Lizzy. X

no probs babe.if you need a shoulder you know where i am.love and hugsxxxxxx(:

Thank you, people keep saying that it was brave, right now i cant see how i am anything but a bitch, he has only just finished paying off for my engagement ring....i know it will get better...well it better do so anyway! thanks for all your support though xxxx

sorry to hear about you and dave steedie.keep your chin up.love and hugsxxxxx(:

Steph that is the bravest thing you could have done, some people stay in relationships even though they know that it is wrong, at least you have admitted that you love him as a friend, now you are both free to move on, and he should be able to trust you with any thing in the future, as you have done right by him now, even if it is painful to start with. I wish you both the very best in the future. :) Bev

If you feel you would like to talk or have a shoulder to cry on,or even moan at,Just Email.I,m usually good at listening,If it helps. Best wishes, I know it seems like the end of the world,but its not, and I do know how you feel. Hal.xx.

Thanks donna...we need to talk anyway! x

honestly he wasnt always like that...i was just his little girl, and he wanted me to stay that way...blimey i need a drink!! xx

Steph.... this sounds harsh but of course he'll be ok.... he'll find someone else to bully!! Sorry but it's true.... people like that can never be on their own for long!!

I know it's easy for me to say this... but stop worrying about him, and think about yourself