General Chat

Jacqui et al Just in case anyone is still wondering, an integrated health practioner, expert or whatever is usually someone who is qualified in both conventional medicine and a number of complementary therapies and techniques. They can therefore draw on both when deciding how to treat someone. I don't know what they have to offer in relation to memory loss (I'm afraid my expertise ends there) but I always think anything is worth a try as long as your expections - and their claims - are realistic. Angela

Although I have not experienced what you young ladies and gents have/are going though - one thing is noticable - (at least this is my way of seeig things - do not want to offend any one) and that is the sense of humour that you all seem to have. One thing I will say is - if anyone needs to have a moan, natter etc - email me. As I work shifts - might not answer straight away - but will do my best, to answer as soon as I can Liz

Hi Denise, my husband is a changed man since he started back to work three weeks ago, happy, talkative, etc. Still forgetful, but will always be like that. We are going out tomorrow night, first time in ages, so long, I can't even remember how long. With people from the hospital where he is now working. Hope everything is ok with you, email me any time. M.

Hi Morfydd, Just remembered I started this thread a week ago. How are you and your husband, well I hope. John, Maybe your answer is very close to the truth, my brain could be full. Did it again this week though. Put a request on the Record Board and forgot to say what I was asking for. To all those who have answered on the this thread, I wish you well and take care. Denise

When I was in hospital recovering after a heart attack, I was warned that short-term memory loss was the norm, particularly after surgery under general anaesthetic. It happens to most folk anyway, as they age, but it can be countered. Talk to your GP if you are worried. Even Alzheimers will soon be treatable, if detected early. Len

Denise, the answer on this thread earlier by Viv in Herts may be the nearest you will get. Most people who have an anesthetic have new learning (short term memory) problems to some degree and to some level. Have you also thought that a brain that is already full hasn't got the room to pick up new things. Anxiety tends to do this especially if you are anxious about your memory. Roger in .... sorry where am I?

I also have epilepsy, it started last year at the age of 30 for no apparent reason. it is so annoying when you are in the middle of doing something and completely forget what you are doing, none of my friends believe me though, they blame it on me being blonde !!! lol Jane

LOL M, I didn't know they couldn't travel on their own. Never got one for my other half or my daughter cause our buses are few and far between. There are some advantages to him not being allowed to drive, I get to choose my own car!! Sue:-)

Hi sue, yes I do know that, but if the bus pass holder travels without their escort, they can't use bus pass. I have one because of my eyes, hubby has one because of stroke, we are like the bus pass family. My son doesn't have one though, thankfully. M.

Did you know that if the person with Epilepsy has to be accompanied when they travel on the bus then the person with them can get a pass too. Our council just requires a letter from the doctor to confirm this. Sue:-)

Thanks Dee, yes I managed to get her one back a few months ago, very useful because she travels to work by bus. M.

Hi Morfydd, does your daughter know that she should be elegible for an invalidity bus pass if your council does them. my op left me with epilepsy and I have only just found out that I am elegible for a flat rate bus pass because I'm not allowed to drive. This is in Lancashire, but I'm sure other counties must do them as well.Dee

Denise, email me any time, talking really helps. M.

Hi Morfydd, Jacqui, Sue and EVERYONE that replied (that I cann't remember) You have ALL cheered us up so much. I have defiantley been put in my place when I think I have the worlds worsted problem, UNTIL I read your letters. Now I know it is really nothing to worry about, but I never did it was hubby that does all the worrying. I send my love and best wishes to you all for your help and encouragement. Take care, Denise

I had a hysterical, sorry, hysterectomy eighteen months ago and now my memory is awful. If I don't write it down I forget it although it is steadly improving. Whenever I've had a general anaesthetic I've had memory problems and it takes a while to recover from the effects. Viv.

my biggest problem is numbers, i was told cant grasp them coz of my brain, im hopeless in a new place or out and about as i get lost, funny thing is i went to the toilet in a pub once, there were 2 doors to go back into the bar, i came out and stood there for 5 mins working out what door to go through. i have hydracephalus and a valve in my head but touch wood (smack) ive had no problems with it. jo

63 and never had Major Surgery. I have a problem with time. Can't remember if it was last weekend or several weekends ago when something happened. If I don't make a shopping list I am guaranteed to forget something important. Even my Tree is a mystery to me and I have to constantly look up to see who and when I am researching. And when I am typing a reply to someone on the Boards I often forget who I am replying to. Still, I don't look upon it as a loss as long as I have the means to record things, on Computer or scraps of paper. Wishing you all the best, Jim

My son developed epilepsy in 1996 caused by the stress of bullying, he used to have nocturnal seizures, he still has absences. My daughter was diagnosed with epilepsy last March and takes anti-epilepsy drugs, which give her problems with her words, she is not allowed to drive, which really annoys her, she shouldn't drink alcohol, which she does and that annoys me. My husband has said to tell you lot who suffer from short term memory loss, take Omega 3 fish oils, he swears they are helping him. M.

Lou, That is wonderful to know that your son has not let it get in the way of his life and I don't blame you for being proud. We are at present waiting for an appointment for other half to be assessed for surgery as his cannot be controlled and they have found a small scar. My daughter has abscence seizures (she is not related to him) and gets so annoyed when she feels that anyone treats her differently, the worst culprits being the teachers at school! Hers is in the main controlled with just the odd little hiccup. Looks like a pharmecy in our house LOL!!! But the attitude in our house is that there are always others far worse off than yourself.. Sue:-)

Hi Denise, I suffered short term memory loss after my brain op 10 years ago. It is improving slightly, but as fast as it does, old age (i'm 58 not THAT OLD) is creeping in, thats my story anyway. It also affected my visual memory. I have to meet someone about half a dozen times before I can be confident of knowing them. The trouble is that I look the picture of health so everyone thinks I'm putting it on, especially my children! Anyway thats enough of a moan for now TTFN Dee