General Chat

tHANKYOU TO EVERYONE FOR BEING SO NICE TO ME...XX

Rach, It hurts like hell as it is not possible to just switch off your feelings but the right one is out there just waiting for you to find him. Have faith in yourself! Your ex... did not deserve you! Lindy;-)

On a light note, Denise Van Oulten said "the best way to get over a man is to get under another one". Bob

ooooh! Am still suffering!

Well done Rach',,,,the hangover was worth it,, Keep smiling hun' Claire x

Good girl Rach, you go get 'em!

This happenned to me several times before I met my husband. Obviously it wasnt by text as a good few years back but just as devasting at the time. Try to think that he was only getting in the way of you meeting your 'true' love the one who will love you forever and who you will settle down with. Now the way is a little bit clearer for you to meet him. Also don't fall for the old line of 'lets be friends' this will only ease his guilty conscience and will be torture for you. He dosnt deserve you to make it easier for him .Think of yourself now and let yourself 'hate' him for a little while whilst you adjust. Any friendships can be resurrected later when and if YOU are ready. Best wishes it will get easier. Penny

Well I have a monster hangover! My hairs a mess. Was very drunk and flirted with everything with a pulse! What a little hussy I am! Feel a bit strange though! Youve all been really nice to me. Thankyou very much Take care Im going to try and sort me hangover out!lol!

Well I had to tone down the actual words going through my head!!

If a Fella does that after a two year relationship ,he has someone else, it,s more the way the rat bag has done it ,yeh? as suggested ,find a new ,better one and enjoy. After all ,it,s his loss isn,t it ,only make sure the fool knows it.denis.

Rach,!! How did it go last night? Did you have a good time? Lisa,,,,you made me laugh...lol,,,but you are right,,,he IS a tosspot,,,,and Im glad you are starting to feel better, as Rach' will too. The way I look at it is..: their loss is someone else's gain.

What a tosspot. It is hard, I had my heart broken a few years back and although I can't say I'm over it, I am getting better. It's getting better all the time. Hugs,Lisa x

Rach I'm really angry with him and sorry for you! What a you-know-what! But I do agree with a few of the earlier replies - was it definitely him who texted you? Only it does seem a bit odd after as long as 3 years together. Have a real good cry, get angry, get it all out of your system... then pick yourself up, dust yourself down and GET OUT THERE ON THE PULL AGAIN - have a great time tonight :)))) Mandy xx

have a good night sandra

Rach, thats brilliant news, Go Girl enjoy yourself will be thinking of you :-) :-) Best Wishes Gwen

Well, I now have a new hairdo! Going out tonight with the lasses! Thanks all for being so kind!xxx

how would i get over an ex,buy myself a dart board stick his picture on it and throw darts at it.don't worry theres probebly loads of good looking single blokes out ther.go out and have some fun.

Hi Rach Big hug for you. These are ways I have got over ex's, theyre fun and make you forget the spinless idot for awhile :- 1. Go on holiday 2. Have rebound se*! 3. Get urself a younger model just for se* and tell ur ex! 4. Go on a spending spree Karen

Didn't Robin Cook tell his wife he was divorcing her in much the same way?

The word Coward really doesn't cover a man like that..... and yes I know this from experience.... I had the same thing done to me and found out afterwards that he'd been dating someone else to an insult to injury.... well I am glad to say that he got his come uppance when he married her then she took him to the cleaners.... I am now happily married to a wonderful man who treats me like a queen and the only text messages he sends me are to tell me how beautiful I am and how much he loves me. The old saying is definitely true "TIME IS A GREAT HEALER" Lick your wounds, go get a makeover and get out there girl and PULL!! ;o)