General Chat

hi lisa,theres an old saying..nothings over till the fat lady sits down..if you want this relationship to survive,fight for this man,like youve never fought before,i dont know the circumstances,so all i can do is give you my best wishes,i will say a little prayer to st anthony for you....bryan.

lisa, so sorry to hear of your troubles,can't say i know what it's, i don't,thinking of you tho', chin up!! email me if you want a chat,you've got friends on hear. chris.

paul is absolutely right lisa, it does make you a stronger person, its horrible at the time and you wonder how much more you can take, keep your head up and we are all here, as with valley weve been thru the bad times and married 18 years, i mean bad times, and i suppose in laws had us divorced before we got down the alter but believe me you will be stronger, in a few days youll feel a bit better and more able too shrug things off,

thanks so much karen for your email.it's appreciated.lisax

thankyou so much for all your kind words and support.sorry i haven't replyed to you all personally but i was not expecting such a kind response from all of you that replyed.it is nice to know there are people that care about you even though we only know each other through this web-site.once again thankyou all i am very choked by it all.lisaxx

Hi Lisa, Wish I could be of some help but am at the moment going through a seperation and this will end in divorce. All I can say is go with your heart not your head, as I hesitated for far too long and it has made things much harder on all concerned. Thinking of you Lots of Love June x

lisa im thinking of you and hope you r able to sort things out one way or another and i say the same as the others...im here if u need a chat take care lou x

Brian I love the message! I was talking about this all night long with my partner. We both agreed that women think too much and men dont think enough. It puts life into persepctive (hope that is spelt right) Has anyone got Sky/Discovery channel? Well they are got programmes about relationships the high the lows etc and I have found some good advice! Would reccommend it to anybody!

Even after a heart to heart you may still see things differently: GIRL's DIARY: FRIDAY 21st June 2002. Saw John in the evening and he was acting really strangely.I went shopping in the afternoon with the girls and I did turn up a bit late so I thought it might be that. The bar was really crowded and loud so I suggested we go somewhere quieter to talk. He was still very subdued and distracted so I suggested we go somewhere nice to eat. All through dinner he just didn't seem himself; he hardly laughed, and didn't seem to be paying any attention to me or to what I was saying. I just knew that something was wrong. He dropped me back home and I wondered if he was going to come in; he hesitated, but followed. I asked him again if there was something the matter but he just half shook his head and turned the television on. After about 10 minutes of silence, I said I was going upstairs to bed. I put my arms around him and told him that I loved him deeply. He just gave a sigh, and a sad sort of smile. He didn't follow me up, but later he did, and I was surprised when we made love. He still seemed distant and a bit cold, and started to think that he was going to leave me, and that he had found someone else. I cried myself to sleep. ========================================================= BOY'S DIARY FRIDAY 21st June 2002. England lost to Brazil 2-1. Got a shag though.

hi lisa im sorry to hear your having problems i hope it sorts its self out soon , thinking of you hang in there. big hugs tracy

Hi Lisa Sorry to hear your going through a difficult time. Don't think I'd be a great help on the advice front. All I can really add is "It won't alwys be dark at seven!!!!" not much help I know at the moment, but thinking of you and really hope things work out for you. Take care Luv Lynda xxxx

Hi Lisa, Just last night I was talking to my partner about, love and feelings in a relationship. We really thrashed it out, womens feelings vs mens feelings etc. It wasnt an arguement just discussions! I hate upset and always try everything to put things right, if you need to hear a friendly voice then you can all me 24/7, if the phone is rinning then I am awake! Many a night I have been on the phone to my friends when they are inconsolable. It helps to hear a friendly voice with kind words when you feel alone. I have done it myself, screamed shouted, paced round and round the house, looking at the numbers in my phone and wondering who to call. I hope that you do start to feel better. With love Stacy x x x x

Lisa, I'm in exactly the same boat at the minute, and its a very lonely place. if you wanna talk, feel free to contact me, we can help each other through it, Tammie

Lisa, would he be willing to try counselling? Sometimes a neutral person can make all the difference. Sorry you're down. Keep talking to us on here and you know we'll help if we can. Pam

Lisa, Just a note to offer my support. You have lots of friends on here ready to listen at any time. Thinking of you Ann Glos

Lisa, Sad to hear you're having tough times - won't offer too many platitudes, no-one can know how what's going on, or how you're feeling but yourself. But hard times come and hard times go - you'll be a stringer person at the end of it. Take care of YOURSELF that's what's important. Paul

thanks for your kind words will consider what you said but the problem runs deeper than just a falling outx

thankyou terry for your kind words it means so muchx

thankyou so much linda,for reading my thread and giving me support.it's so nice to know people carex

thanks philip,really appreciate your kind words.x