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yesterday my husband was in a car crash and he stll in hospital with head and chest injury why can i not cry only shout at him was told to leave last night been back today still the same . been told it the shock .....UPDATE they have just let him home for the weekend but as to go back monday

hi marilyn i hope hubby recovers quickly, you are in shock as well so don't be to hard on yourself. (((((((hugs for you and hubby)))))))) take care sandra

Marilyn - so sorry to hear this news,take care,give him a hug - you both need one.Chin up:o) Jude sarf wales

Marilyn Huggs...I can only repeat what others have said about the relief and the fact you will be in shock,But when it does hit you let the tears flow they will be a welcome release of how you are feeling now Take Care Hun and hope Hubby is home soon Love Jan

marilyn sorry to hear about your husband, like everyone said its the initial shock thats made you angry with him, keep us updated. jenny x

Hope hubby make a good recovery Margaret

Hope that your husband is a little better today and also that you are as well Take care Bren

I was similar when John was in hospital a couple of years ago. He'd had a heart attack here at home but I dealt with it somehow, it scared the pants of me to be honest as he'd gone into a seizure and I thought he was a gonner. I went to the hospital with him and stayed strong for our childrens sake, (grownup) I went to the hospital in central London every day for a couple of weeks. No tears, nothing until after he was out and recouperating, we went for a walk near a church and the bells were ringing. That triggered something off and I could not stop crying. You will probably be the same, it took six weeks before it all came out. I hope your hubby is better soon and you take care of yourself. Luv Jo.

Marilyn Its like the others say, it is shock that makes you act like this, I hope he will soon recover, take care of yourself, he will need you when he does get out of hospital.

my best wishes to you and your husband, thinking of you,luv melinda

Marilyn, So sorry to hear about your hubby. I hope he gets better soon. Hugs Lindy

hi marilyn,yes its a normal reaction. i wish him well,for a full recovery. bryan.

Hi Sorry to hear your news and I hope that your husband has a full recovery. At least you shout because of the shock, I laugh which would look worst. fingers crossed nat

Dear Marilyn Hope you have better news today. We are all thinking of you. Take care of yourself. Love Linda x

sorry to hear of you hubby accident hope he as a fast recovery hugs to you both

Wishing hubby a speedy recovery and all good wishes to you too. Liz

thinking of you both take care lou xx

marilyn I hope your husband has a speedy recovery and you are just acting normal to a shock.If the tears do start dont hold back just let them fall it doesn't matter where you are.people are very understanding.and please keep us all updated on his and your progress. hugs to you both sue

My best wishes to you both for a speedy recovery David

HI I remember shouting at my gran when she fell down some steps-I had kept telling her to be careful and felt she had not listened to me-it really was because of the thought that she may be hurting and I didn't want her to, I would rather have fallen myself it definatly is a shock reaction My love and best wishes to you both Janet