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Had the sad news this morning that my daughter had lost her baby, Lots of you have adviced and shared the wedding plans with me earlier this year and gave us food for thought with unusal names for the new arrival. You are a good kind lot and i know you will be there if i need a shoulder

so sorry to hear your news claire. my thoughts are with you and your family. best wishes melinda xx

Oh Claire, what sad news. I am so sorry. Love and hugs to you and your daughter Sue x

oh claire. i don't really post on here much but i know how you are all feeling. i had a miscarriage 2weeks ago today. i was nearly 12weeks pregnant. it is the most awful experience after pinning your hopes on this little baby. it must be hard for you to know what to do, i didn't want to talk about it but needed people around to keep my mind active. i have only just gone back to work and life is getting back to normal. take care shirley

Claire I have had a miscarriage myself, my mother had 3 miscarriages, my sister-in-law lost a baby at 5 and a half months, my mother-in-law's first baby died at 2 minutes' old. It is absolutely devastating and I am so sorry for you and your daughter and partner. You need time to grieve. On the positive side, my mother, mother-in-law, sister in law and self all gave birth to two healthy children after our losses. Thinking of you. nell

Claire. So sorry to hear that sad news.. Thoughts are with you and your daughter. Love Pat x

Oh Claire ,iam so sorry, and yes, liz and i are here to talk to anytime, as will be so many more people ,take care ,love and hugs,Fred and Liz.xx

I'm so sorry to hear your sad news. Your daughter and son-in-law must be heartbroken. Love and hugs, Mandy xx

Oh Claire so sad. Hugs to you , your daughter, your son in law and the whole family . Debi

Claire I know how your daughter feels I lost two babies in between my two son's ---who are now in there 30's tell her to keep thinking positive, and we all feel for her.

hi sorry i have a lovely poem that someone sent me after my miscarrige. hope you don't mind me posting it for your daughter, and i hope i don't offend anyone by doing so. shirley An Angel Never Dies Don't let them say I wasn't born, that something stopped my heart. I felt each tender squeeze you gave, I've loved you from the start. Although my body, you can't hold it doesn't mean I'm gone This world was worthy not of me God chose that I move on. I know the pain that drowns your soul what you are forced to face. You'll have my word, I'll fill your arms, someday we will embrace. You'll hear that it was 'meant to be' God doesn't make mistakes. But that won't soften your first blow or make your heart not ache. I'm watching over all you do Another child you'll bear Believe me when I say to you That I am always there. There will come time, I promise you when you will hold my hand, stroke my face and kiss my lips, and then you'll understand. Although I've never breathed your air, Or gazed into your eyes That doesn't mean I never was An Angel Never Dies.

Shirley - that was lovely. I had a miscarriage 8 years ago, and now have a wonderful soon-to-be-7 year old, but I still grieve for my first baby. Claire - all my love and thoughts go to you and your family. Look after your daughter; I'm sure she'll need you. Kim x

Shirley that was lovely. I don't think anyone that has lost a baby ever forgets. They are always a part of you. nell

Shirley, no one could be offended by that beautiful poem. Sue

Hello Claire, sorry to read your sad news, sometimes life just doesn't seem fair at all.. What lovely words, in the above poem.

Hi Claire, Me and my wife know excactly how you and your daughter must be feeling. We can`t say anything to make it better, except to offer you both, our thoughts and prayers. Hugs from, Barry and Jan. xx

Claire, Thinking of you all. Much love, Elisabeth xx

Shirley , my daugher was almost 12 weeks too, Your poem was beautiful and i will show it to her when the time is right, Theresa,,,Elizabeth, Lynda and everyone,,,,thanks so much for your kind words,,,it just takes a miniute to pop a message onto the boards but it means so much,, xxxxx

Oh Claire, I am so sorry to hear your daughter's sad news. It will take her a while to get over it, it is devasting for the whole family when it happens - been there so feel for you. Ann Glos

Hi, I am very sorry to hear of your sad news my thoughts are with you all. Having been through this experiance i know what your Daughter is going through. If she wants anyone to chat to i am willing to talk to her. She can send me an email. Sharon Smith