General Chat

It really does sound like he's got emotional problems, and at 21 is probably too immature to deal with them. Things may never be diferent but try giving him an emotional "kick up the arse". Tell him to stop taking things out on you or else. Trouble is you,ve got to mean it. Craig

Steedie, agree with everything thats been said---you're worth more than this, Karen

dump him. x

Steedie - it could be that your boyfriend is insecure and, in some way, feels unworthy. His nastiness may be a way of 'testing' or 'pushing' you to see how much you'll take. When you naturally get upset, he is then guilt-ridden. I may be completely wrong, and am in no way excusing his behaviour, but I feel that if he was a truly 'nasty' guy you'd have dumped him already. I would challenge him about his behaviour, but make clear you find it unacceptable. Hope things work out for the best. Sheila x

looks like its time for a bit of change! lol xxx

Yes, i can understand what your all saying, and i know you are all right! xxxx

Wendy that's awful.... I do hope no damge was done!! Steedie, it's easy for us to say as I know walking is harder than putting up with it, but trust me it does get easier!! :O)

Steph... have already said my piece to you privately, but you can see everyone else seems to agree. You're worth more than that, you shouldn't put up with it. Paul xx

I know it is hard to leave someone that you are happy with when they are being nice but Carol is right, life can be miserable when you are walking on eggshells waiting for the next bad mood. Unfortunately, people like this very rarely change and revel in making those around them just as miserable. Chrissie

Sweetie.... me agrees with the others.... dump him, you are a gorgeous looking girl and you won't be on your own for long!! :O)

Im not offended Chrissie! to be honest, i dont know why i put up with it! When he isnt like it, hes great, hes my best friend. Just not sure what to do! xxx

Hi Steedie Please don't be offended - but why do you put up with it and stay with him ? You deserve better than this treatment. Chrissie

Hes 21. I just dont get it though Craig, he has no reason to be like this, i think he just likes to drag me down! xx

Hi Steph, sorry to say that we're all the same sometimes. Especially if we think we've got the upper hand. how old is he

of my pig of a boyfriend!I have been with for 2 and half yearsand we havent been right for a good few months now. The past two weekends he has been a nightmare! Even on my birthday the other week he was nasty to me, i just dont understand why? He wouldnt leave me alone last night until he made me cry and once he had done that, he then called me a child for being so upset, then 5 minutes later got upset himself and wouldnt stop saying sorry...i just dont get it! xxxx