General Chat

Go girl, you don't need someone that wont let you be yourself. You are YOU and dont let anybody stop you. (champers sounds good!) Kxx

yeh, and we can get lilos and sunbathe allll day, and get really brown, eat what we like, when we like, do whatever we want, never argue.....bliss! x

Princess Steph Have sent you an e-mail. Plenty of space on my settee until we decided where we're going.

Steph, if I were your mummy - I would be doing all I could to persuade you to get rid of him asap!! If this is what he is like now, can you imagine what he would be like if you were married? I think a break is a damned good idea! Go for it! Magsxx

thanks for that wendy, i replied! the settee is sounding very tempting!! lol xxxx

Mags, Ma tells me all the time to sort it out. Dont get me wrong, he is my best friend, and ma loves him dearly, but it just aint good for me! xxx

Can you really imagine the rest of your life like this - keep him as a best friend but don't make him your husband. Kxx

He is here now being grumpy! so i gotta go :-((( Will carry on the travel arrangments tomoro? ! xxx

Steph Mum's may love their daughters boyfriends, but they aren't the ones having the relationship with him. My eldest has found a nice one, who we like (dad likes him too, something to do with being in the same profession). But have said that it's her relationship, it's just an added bonus that parents like him.

Steph, If it's not good for you now - it won't ever be. Sorry if that sounds really blunt. Even 'good friends' aren't that cruel. Life is for living not for being dictated to, especially when you are young. I think that someone that is that manipulative is not going to change and any sorting out would only be temporary. You are unhappy with your life the way it is - change it while you have lots more options open to you! love bossy Magsxx

Can I come too,so if you all get homesick, I can `spoil` your day,and make you feel `at home` Baz. x

sorry Wendy and Steph didnt mean to ignore you had to answer the phone

Baz we are getting rid of the men !

We may make a slight allowance (Johnny Depp anyone??) Kxx

Katz, I think we can allow that. Princess can we go soon ,I think my hubbys catching on as hes spotted my suitcase all packed and ready!

Hi Steph. Iv'e got just the spot for you. Queensland, Australia. Sunshine Coast. Temp: Average,30 celcius. ( in Winter ) Tropical Enviroment, Lots of Palm Trees, White powder sand, Blue skies, Beatiful sunsets, Romance, Bronze tanned Ozzies, ( single and Married ) lol, No one has ever heard of a Jumper or Overcoat up there. Ya never know what day it is, and nobody cares. Sound O'K?? Tony. Oz

Steph Sweetheart, I spent 20 yrs married to a control freak.Nothing was ever right for him.And as the boys began to grow uphe started on them.He screwed one of them up so completely that he has no confidence in himself and always 'Fails on his own terms' He panics and quits jobs as soon as they try to promote him. You can do without this type of relationship.If someone doesn't accept you as you are then DUMP HIM. lOTS OF hUGS FROM G'MA ROSE cAN i JOIN THE RUNAWAY MOB PLEASE.

Anthony, that sounds great! Right my bags are packed....but im still not leaving without Pink Diana! xxx

Princess Steph, Don't run away from your problems. Sit your man down, tell him how you feel and explain that if he does not stop trying to control you then you will have to look for pastures new. When this doesn't work (as it won't). Tell him to BOG OFF. Jean x.

Ok i will do that first....then im running! lol xxx