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I have decided to start the new year back in the marital home giving it everything I can and making sure he gives it everything too.... My marriage is too important to me!! At least I know that if this time they take the mickey I am strong enough to leave them forever.... but I don't think it will come to that!! :O)

Diana i wish you all the luck, its a brave decision to make, i couldn't have done it with my ex's. I wish you well and alot of happiness sandra

That's a turn up!! Was it a mutual decision? I wish you luck anyway, and knowing that you are strong enough to survive without him should help you , hopefully he will respect you more for it too!! All the best!!

We've been talking for a while and he has been asking me to move back for about 2 months, but I have taken things at my pace and decided that the new year deserves a new start. I won't ever regret the decision as it will make me realise one way or the other whether i am meant to be with him for life... I believe we are so this is the last shot!! :O)

I dont know the circumstances but if it is what you want then go for it and all the luck in the world

Good Luck Diana "It's better to regret something you've done than to regret something you haven't done" Love becx

Don't know your circumstances, but if you feel it's worth another attempt, then you should go for it. If not, you'll always wonder "what if". At least this way, if it does eventually go pear shaped, you will be able to look at yourself in the mirror & KNOW that you gave it everything. No regrets. Be strong & don't settle for second best. If it's to work it has to be worthy. All the best! Helen

Good luck to you Diana, At least you will know in your heart you have tried and given it your best shot. Hope it all comes together for you. Dianexx

Good Luck Diana, I really hope it works out for you. Lots of love and hugs from Sue & Doug xxxx

Thanks everyone.... I have set some ground rules and he's playing along so far.... so fingers crossed!! :O)

Good Luck Diana - sounds like you've got something worth fighting for! Hope it works out for you both, Sheila x

Pinky, you are not mad! Im very happy for you...(as long as you are happy too!) xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Good luck Diana I hope everything works out for you All the best Christine

good luck to you diana.hope it all works out.love and hugsxxxxx(:

Honey, we're wishing you all the best for your brave decision. Hope that it all turns out the way you wish. You can only regret what you did do. Remember we're always here for you whenever. Love 'n hugs Wendy and Susie

I hope everything works out for the pair of you,However,as they say,It takes two to Tango,Spell it out for him,that you,re not prepared to take nothing less than 100% of his effort ,which you will give also. Best of Luck.Hal.

diana, you have obviously thought it through, and, no, you are not mad. Marriage is worth fighting for. I do hope it works out well for you, but if it doesn't you will feel satisfied that you have given it your all. good Luck. ann Glos

Go for it girl, worth a try. Bridget x

Dianne, Nobody thinks that you are mad! Love is what makes the world go around and a bit of cash helps too..lol. Happiness to both of you. Lindy;-)))

Good luck Diana, I don't know the full details but I don't think you're mad at all, and understand fully. I hope everything works out great for you. If things don't work at least you'll know that you gave it everything you had and wont be left wondering what if. I'm in a similar situation, but don't have the opportunity to try again - though would like to. Once again, all the best, hope it works out how you want it to. Kxx