General Chat

Katz just said exactly what I was going to... if he comes crawling back then DON'T take him back. He's left you at least twice, been with AT LEAST 3 other girls.. as I told Steph recently ... blokes like that don't change.

Katz just said exactly what I was going to... if he comes crawling back then DON'T take him back. He's left you at least twice, been with AT LEAST 3 other girls.. as I told Steph recently ... blokes like that don't change.

Just don't take him back when he comes crawling back to you (and he will - no doubt). Tell him to shove it... Kxx

I just wanna say one more thing... EVERYBODY you are right, he doesnt deserve Bec, she is funny gorgeous, kind, caring endearing (spelling? lol) and a wonderful friend! Bec he is gonna realise what a fool he has been, and when he does he will be sorry, xxxxx

Bec Sweetheart listen to Grandma, You are much too good for him-he doesn't deserve you.In fact you are better off without him.He would always have cheated you and hurt you. She is welcome to him.He will do exactly the same to her. CHIN UP LOVE-BIG HUGS Grandma Rose

Bec, just seen your thread girl. He doesn't deserve you and it's his loss. In a little while if someone mentions him, you'll say "who?" Honest. Be happy and go see your Mum. Hugs. Jan

Bec, you will soon realise yourself that you are a lot stronger than you think and you will realise that you are well shot of him. You shouldn't feel stupid or embarrased - he's the one that should but being a cowardly, lying, cheat don't know if he's capable. You rant on these boards all you like, it'll be a good release, there's plenty of people who know exactly how you feel and contact your mum - she'll have you back with open arms in a flash no doubt. My 16 year relationship finished a year ago - everyone says this but honestly - it does get better. All the very best. Kxx

Bec honey....you will have a great time later! Just make sure you keep in touch, let your hair down honey....... luv ya loads babes xxxxxxxxxxx

My last post read all wrong!! - it looks as if I was saying that you expect too much - not my intention at all! Chin up Bec - the 'bottom' may have fallen out of your world - but that's only because HE is the a**ehole! Magsxx

Hello everyone My alarm didnt go off so I missed my bus!!! Am going to go up to Lancaster today and visit friends! Am still feeling awful but life goes on and I have an amazing group of friends in you all. Thank you Becx

Hello Bec , Dry your eyes, you're well shot of him ......he'll do it again and again. He's a louse !!! When I was 17 my heart was broken....cried for a week and lost weight ...my mother told me " by this time next year you'll wonder what all the fuss was about "....she was right !!! I'm 64 now and must tell you that she was right . There are plenty of fish in the sea . You'll see things differently in time... All the best Joyce

Babe, sorry i didnt text u back till this morning, how did ya find out hun? Look, as we both have said, and you know this full well, they will not last ! He will be crawling back to you babes you know it, its gonna be your choice in the end whether you get back together or not. Im here for you babes. -x-x-x-x-x-x-

If that's the way he can treat you - then you are well rid of him! You need someone that makes you feel good ALL the time...loyal...understanding...sympathetic....easy maintenance......warms the bed only when YOU want them to...understands 'gerroff' without getting pi**y...tolerates your moods and still loves you to bits.....YOU NEED A DOG! If I were your mum Bec - I would want at least the chance to sort things out between us..so please do what everyone else has said and get in touch with her. Mail me if you would like to chat Magsxx

Babe, I do hope you are feeling stronger than you were last week.... he doesn't deserve you and you should just go out a pull a random gorgeous man!! :O)

Morning Bec, (am up early today!), have just been reading through, and am very sorry. You are a lovely Girl, who doesn't deserve all this, there is some real good advice, in what folks here have said, you deserve better!.. Take a day out today, get things back on track with Mum, course it will be hard... but, there's a New Year coming round the corner, and who knows what's in store for you, there will be someone else..and they'll treat you right, Your'e better off without him!.. Take good care, catch you later! :) Remember wer'e right here..

hi bec, now listen carefully as i weel zay zis only vunce ! its christmas , there are lots of parties etc on the way. during the course of the festive season you will have a lot of fun and you will meet a LOT of frogs out there BUT there are also one or two princes too ! the most important thing is to have fun,fun,fun and lots of it . be yourself , be happy , be truthful and honest , this will ensure you get the partner you deserve HAVE A HAPPY CHRISTMAS sean

Right am leaving tomorrow morning Am not running away from my troubles, am simply escaping from ^*^%(^$$ and his new girlfriend. Will be in here tomorrow and let you know whats happening becx P.S Thank you all for your support.

Just had confirmation. He was snogging that girl in front of everyone. Am more embarrassed than upset. What a %$£ becx

Thank you Anne I am such a strong person and have been there for so many other people, the scary thing is... can I be that strong for me. I think I can. I really am a strong person. I dont deserve anything bad. I have never hurt anyone. I just want to be loved. I'd never hurt anyone, not for myself but its not in my nature, I just wish good luck and love upon all. Sweet dreams everyone xxx

Bec you take care love Anne