General Chat

Bec...for gods sake! this 17yo works at Tesco's!!!! how much do you think she earns per week?....lolololol...I'll bet she wont be able to afford to support him like you did...I just hope you dont take him back.....let you head rule...not your heart cos you have a long life ahead of you and you dont want to waste your life on a loser like him.

lol bendy....you reading this bec?.....lol

I'm going to go to lancaster tomorrow supposed to be working at the pub tomorrow night (his brother and law is my boss) but am going to say I'm going. Am going to stay with friends and be away from him!!

Bec...thats sounds like a brill idea hun.....but please phone your mum sometime soon.

I'll ring my mum tomorrow. and i'll have xmas at hers (i did say i'd spend it at the old peoples home down the road to me but i need to be with my faimily) I know i sound so sad but i really thought we'd be together forever, i'm wrong

Bec you are doing the right thing for you!

I know Bendy But he was so good in the beginning (well no saint, he ended things after 4 months, slept with 2 girls - my best friend and his ex) but i took him back 18 months passed and it was fine, until now. i've been so silly. i really hate myself for this. he was too young for me and held me back so much but i loved him. i sound so naive but i juste wanted love. Sorry for encroaching on all your time, i reliase my problems are miniscule compared to so many but it hurts so much

Love and loyalty is never miniscule bec.....We have all been there n done that....but guess wot!...we'er still here and much happier for it...my promise to you is....you WILL get over this but you have a few days of sadness 1st...after that...life can only get better :o) x

Bec...take a look at my thread....'revenge is sweet'....hope it makes you smile x

Thank you so much I know many people have much worse happening but this is bad to me. Am going up to lancaster tomorrow and will chill out (and work) with my friends. I guarantee I will come back and be a different person. I am so grateful for all your love and kind thoughts, it means so much to a little (ok 22!) girl alone on her own. Love you all

Bec you take care love Anne

Thank you Anne I am such a strong person and have been there for so many other people, the scary thing is... can I be that strong for me. I think I can. I really am a strong person. I dont deserve anything bad. I have never hurt anyone. I just want to be loved. I'd never hurt anyone, not for myself but its not in my nature, I just wish good luck and love upon all. Sweet dreams everyone xxx

Just had confirmation. He was snogging that girl in front of everyone. Am more embarrassed than upset. What a %$£ becx

Right am leaving tomorrow morning Am not running away from my troubles, am simply escaping from ^*^%(^$$ and his new girlfriend. Will be in here tomorrow and let you know whats happening becx P.S Thank you all for your support.

hi bec, now listen carefully as i weel zay zis only vunce ! its christmas , there are lots of parties etc on the way. during the course of the festive season you will have a lot of fun and you will meet a LOT of frogs out there BUT there are also one or two princes too ! the most important thing is to have fun,fun,fun and lots of it . be yourself , be happy , be truthful and honest , this will ensure you get the partner you deserve HAVE A HAPPY CHRISTMAS sean

Morning Bec, (am up early today!), have just been reading through, and am very sorry. You are a lovely Girl, who doesn't deserve all this, there is some real good advice, in what folks here have said, you deserve better!.. Take a day out today, get things back on track with Mum, course it will be hard... but, there's a New Year coming round the corner, and who knows what's in store for you, there will be someone else..and they'll treat you right, Your'e better off without him!.. Take good care, catch you later! :) Remember wer'e right here..

Babe, I do hope you are feeling stronger than you were last week.... he doesn't deserve you and you should just go out a pull a random gorgeous man!! :O)

If that's the way he can treat you - then you are well rid of him! You need someone that makes you feel good ALL the time...loyal...understanding...sympathetic....easy maintenance......warms the bed only when YOU want them to...understands 'gerroff' without getting pi**y...tolerates your moods and still loves you to bits.....YOU NEED A DOG! If I were your mum Bec - I would want at least the chance to sort things out between us..so please do what everyone else has said and get in touch with her. Mail me if you would like to chat Magsxx

Babe, sorry i didnt text u back till this morning, how did ya find out hun? Look, as we both have said, and you know this full well, they will not last ! He will be crawling back to you babes you know it, its gonna be your choice in the end whether you get back together or not. Im here for you babes. -x-x-x-x-x-x-

Hello Bec , Dry your eyes, you're well shot of him ......he'll do it again and again. He's a louse !!! When I was 17 my heart was broken....cried for a week and lost weight ...my mother told me " by this time next year you'll wonder what all the fuss was about "....she was right !!! I'm 64 now and must tell you that she was right . There are plenty of fish in the sea . You'll see things differently in time... All the best Joyce