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Thanks Misty You're a star! love a very grateful becx

Thanks Misty H Am feeling better already. Guess I needed a bit of a weep and now I feel strong again. becx

Thnaks Misty H Am ok now, just angry with myself for breaking down, I know Im stronger than that. thank you for your message becx

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Hi , is anyone out there?

Thanks Christine Am so frustrated. I thought I was strong, I've been dealing with it so well. I've even met the new girlfriend and had them kissing in front of me and I handled it... Now I'm not sure if I can...

Well Bec, hopefully you're family will welcome you back with open arms. It is hard as a parent not to say I told you so, but I must admit I do try, but don't always succeed! You just want the best for your kids and it's hard to stand back and let them make their own mistakes. I really hope everything comes good for you. Thought after last week you were doing really good too, but it's just a wee set back. You'll feel better again, honest.

I am going to my mum's on Christmas day But we haven't spoken for 6 months because we fell out over my boyfriend. I have so much making up to do and am dreading the 'I told you so' and the arguments.

Thanks Stuart, have added you to my MSN. I'm so angry with myself. This if the first time I've cried in weeks

Bec, my son has just split with his G/F and I know how he's feeling, but at least he's still at home so it must be worse if your totally on your own. Can't you go home for Christmas?

Thats it Stu! Until 3 weeks ago I did have a boyfriend who would be with me on lonely nights like this. Then he finished with me and now he has a new girlfriend. I will be with my family on Christmas Day but that in itself will be an ordeal. I just wish I could cancel Christmas, just for this year.

I work 3 times a week in a pub and the days from home. I wont be working on Christmas day but every other day.

Thank you Stu I rely on you all a lot and your kind words really help but sometimes a really big hug would make such a difference.

Are you working at Christmas Bec? Is it a pub you work in?

That's it Stu!! I feel so guilty for feeling lonely. I'm better off than so many other people. This is my first Christmas in my own place and I think I'm used to celebrating the run up to Christmas with my family. Becx

Christine - these things are sent to make us stronger... apparently. I've been so strong this last few weeks, just feel like I'm running out of steam and strength. I'd happily curl up and forget about everyone and Christmas. Becx

Stu my other half has just came in from being out with the workmates too. Bit of a state I have to say! LOL Christine

Just got in from work :-( No works do for me as I work for myself... feel like I've missed out on Christmas this year. All in all feeling very pathetic and sorry for myself. becx

I think Bec, at this time of year it doesn't matter if they are small problems or not....everything just somehow seems bigger. Sorry you're having a rotten time. Christine

Hello Stu How you doing? becx