General Chat

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lol Was just wondering.... have never 'fallen' in love before. Just quite liked them and realised one day I loved them. becx

I dont really know? I just knew that when Dave was not around, I missed him, when he was around, I felt safe, and comfortable... And whats more I still do, been married for 15 years to-day! together for 23 years and it still feels perfect!! I laugh when he laughs, cry when he cries and hurt when he hurts! I think you just know when it happens! Maz x

What about in the first place? When did you first think "I love you"? love becx

k.b I forgot to add that, yes we are best friends too and hold the utmost respect for each other!! Maz x ;0)

Hi Bec I don't know, it just happens, It's hard to explain. lol When you think of what it would be like with someone else and you can't bare the thought of being with anyone else...........When you think of the person that you are with and feel happy with that person........When you enjoy each others company..............When you share everything........If you can get through the most difficult times and still be together and happy........You get a fluttery feeling in you belly everytime you think of that person............Then surely that is love. I have been with my husband for 13 year's and what I've said is how I feel. So to me that is what love feels like. Nicola xxx

Theres one other thing that I forgot to mention, to really know when you are in love, you would have to been with someone for quite a while and build on it. If you still feel like that in years to come, then I believe that is love lol Soppy mo aren't I lol Nicola xx

Bec I seriously cant remember! of course at first it was lust as it normally is, you fancy some-one, then the lust sets in!! Then sex is no longer important, nice, good, wonderful!! but not important, the person themselves replace that importance, and you suddenly feel that wonderful feeling of being "in love". I can honestly say that I still feel that way, I love Dave, but I am also still "in love" with him.... Maz x

Awwww When did you first get the flutterings of love? The butterflys? Becx

Nicola Soppy? No.. yes... whatever... it feels great dont it?? Maz x ;0)

I know it's really weird but when I first started seeing my hubby, I didn't feel anything really, Ive told him so too lol lol Bless no seriously love is something you build on and over time even though I thought I loved him, I didn't really no for sure until we had been together for a long time. See you can have an attraction to someone, and it feels a bit similar to that. But if you still feel like that years later then that is love. Nicola xx

It certainly does lol I've never felt so comfortable with someone for so long, we have been to hell and back and our relationship is still strong. So that's got to count for something. Nicola xx

k.b It is never too late babe.. Go ask him in the morning!! AND TELL US ABOUT IT!!! EVERY LITTLE DETAIL!! LOL!! Maz x

No actually, go wake him up now, and then get back here quick and let us know!! I will wait for you to reply!! GO ON THEN ...... QUICK... CHOP, CHOP!!

Go on kb why not, go and ask him lol Nicola xx

I split up with my guy coz i thought he was boring, sad eh. This was 7 yrs ago. Then i met a physic that said it was a big mistake we split up, coz we should av been soul mates. We got back togethr and we r getting married this august To me, hes still boring but he works too much to look after his family, to me thats love, he makes sure we r well looked after and i love him him loads 4 doing that 4 us.l

Put that pride away girlie!! AND GO ASK HIM!!

It's only been 2 months... and I'm starting to feel the fluttering.... He hasn't said anything and I wouldn't until I knew... but is it just infatuation? becx

If a picture paints a thousand words, Then why can't I paint you? The words will never show The you I've come to know. If a face could launch a thousand ships, Then where am I to go? There's no one home but you, You're all that's left me to. (Chorus:) And when my love for life is running dry, You'll come and pour yourself on me. If a man could be two places at one time I'd be with you, Tomorrow and today, Beside you all the way. If the world should stop revolving Spinning slowly down to die, I'd spend the end with you, And when the world was through, Then one by one, The stars would all go out, Then you and I, Would simply fly away

Bec hun it's not really love to begin with, like I said Love is something you build on and it's not always easy. When I think of all those times when we have hit rock bottom and picked ourselves straight back up again and then still feel the same about each other. I would say that we are very much a strong couple, we are considerate to each others feelings and lean on each other for support. Those are the things that you have to build on. Nicola xx