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Julie

Julie Report 10 Apr 2016 12:43

Thanks for all this Austin :-D

AustinQ

AustinQ Report 9 Apr 2016 21:48

It was not compulsory to put deceased on a marriage certificate where the father was no longer living. The headings on the certificate only ask- Father's name and surname, and Rank or Profession of father.

Joseph's father-in-law, Mark Gardner, was also deceased at the time of the marriage in 1867 and this also is not listed.

Jane and family in 1851.

1851 England, Wales & Scotland Census Transcription
1, Wandsworth Road Surrey Place, Clapham, Wandsworth, Surrey, England
Mark Gardner Head Married 51 1800 Smith & Ironmonger (Master Employing 4 Men) Frimley, Suffolk,
Caroline Gardner Wife Married Female 44 1807 - Clapham, Surrey, England
Charles Gardner Son Unmarried Male 22 1829 Smith (Journeyman) Clapham, Surrey,
Mark Gardner Son Unmarried Male 19 1832 Smith (Journeyman) Clapham, Surrey,
Mary Ann Gardner Daughter Unmarried Female 17 1834 Dress Maker Clapham, Surrey,
Thomas Gardner Son - Male 15 1836 - Clapham, Surrey, England
Jane Gardner Daughter - Female 6 1845 Scholar Clapham, Surrey, England
Frederick Gardner Son - Male 3 1848 Scholar Clapham, Surrey, England
Ellen Gardner Daughter - Female 1 1850 - Clapham, Surrey, England
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Jane's mother, widowed in 1861-

1861 England, Wales & Scotland Census Transcription
5, Surrey Place Wand Road, Clapham, Wandsworth, London, England
Caroline Gardner Head Widow Female 37 1824 Ironmonger Clapham, Surrey,
Thomas Gardner Son Married Male 25 1836 Smith Clapham, Surrey,
Jane Gardner Daughter - Female 16 1845 Shop Assistant Clapham, Surrey, England

Julie

Julie Report 9 Apr 2016 20:32

Slightly confused now Austin - I've had time to sit down and look at the posts. It certainly looks like William's death as its the same address however on his son Joseph William's marriage record taken from London Marriages and banns in Aug 1867 William is listed as the father but doesn't say deceased. Not sure if this is normal not to put deceased or was he still alive?

AustinQ

AustinQ Report 9 Apr 2016 11:15

I suspect she took William's name when her child was born- having a child out of wedlock was frowned upon. It may have been that William Lock was already married so not free to marry her.

HeyJudeB4Beatles

HeyJudeB4Beatles Report 9 Apr 2016 11:07

She lived as William's wife and therefore assumed his name. It was only when she "remarried" that she reverted to Wright and spinsterhood. Maybe telling an untruth in Church worried her

Jude

Julie

Julie Report 9 Apr 2016 10:30

Thank you so much for this Austin. I wonder why she is down as Lock on the census?

AustinQ

AustinQ Report 9 Apr 2016 09:22

A snippet that might be of interest:

South London Press - Saturday 25 May 1867
LAMBETH:
On Tuesday, a carpenter named Edward Gibson wassentenced to 20 days hard labour for committing a brutal assault upon Mary Ann Lock, his landlady, at 15 Stangate Street, on the previous Tuesday.

AustinQ

AustinQ Report 9 Apr 2016 08:41

OK, was wondering why I couldn't find a death for Mary Ann after the 1871 census in Lambeth- it was because she married (which is helpful, as now you have her father's name :-D )

AND GUESS WHAT!! She never married William Lock- on her marriage she is listed as SPINSTER.

Name: Mary Ann Wright, Spinster, 15 Stangate Street
Estimated birth year: abt 1816
Age: 60
Spouse: Richard Carter, Widower, Labourer, 15 Stangate Street
Spouse Age: 63
Record Type: Marriage
Event Date: 8 May 1876
Parish: St Philip, Lambeth
Borough: Lambeth
Father Name: George Wright, Carpenter
Spouse Father: James Carter, Labourer (Deceased)
Register Type: Parish Register

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1871 England, Wales & Scotland Census Transcription
Stangale Street, Lambeth, London, England

Mary Lock Head - Female 54 1817 - Buckinghamshire, England
Richard Carter Boarder - Male 55 1816 - Wiltshire, England
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Here she is again in 1881- getting younger!

1881 England, Wales & Scotland Census Transcription
15, Stangate Street, Lambeth, London, England

Mary Ann Carter Lodger Head Widow Female 60 1821 Laundress Buckingham,
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Possible death?
First name(s) MARY ANN
Last name CARTER
Gender Female
Birth year 1816
Age 67
Death quarter 1
Death year 1883
District LAMBETH
County London
Volume 1D Page 244

AustinQ

AustinQ Report 9 Apr 2016 08:11

William and Mary in 1861:

1861 England, Wales & Scotland Census Transcription
15, Stangate Street, St Marys, Lambeth, London, England

William Lock Head Married Male 53 1808 Bricklayor Norfolk, England
Mary Ann Lock Wife Married Female 48 1813 - Wycombe, Buckinghamshire,
Joseph W Lock Son - Male 18 1843 Collector Wycombe, Buckinghamshire,
Michael Albright Lodger Married Male 56 1805 Workmans Timekeeer At The Storeses Of Parliament Ireland
Elizabeth Albright Wife - Female 51 1810 - Cork, Cork, Ireland
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In 1871 Mary is widowed, still living in Stangate Street, Lambeth- this must be William's death (Stangate Street):

Name: William Lock
Record Type: Burial
Age: 55
Estimated birth year: abt 1807
Death Date: abt 1862
Burial Date: 1 Feb 1862
Burial Place: Norwood Cemetery, Norwood Road, Lambeth, England
Parish or Poor Law Union: Norwood Cemetery, Norwood Road, Lambeth
Borough: Lambeth
Register Type: Bishop's Transcript

Abode Stangate Street, Lambeth
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Deaths Mar 1862 (>99%)
LOCK William Lambeth 1d 207

Chris Ho :)

Chris Ho :) Report 9 Apr 2016 07:45

County Norfolk
Place Pulham Market
Church name St Mary Magdalene
Register type Archdeacon's Transcripts
Marriage date 9 Jan 1797
Groom forename William
Groom surname LOCK
Groom condition Bachelor
Groom parish Wymondham
Bride forename Elizabeth
Bride surname TUNMER
Bride condition Spinster
Witness1 forename Charles
Witness1 surname ROOPE
Witness2 forename John
Witness2 surname BOYCE
Notes Groom And First Witness Sign X


Baptism
County Norfolk
Place Pulham Market
Church name St Mary Magdalene
Register type Parish Register
Baptism date 21 Apr 1805
Person forename Elizabeth
Person sex F
Father forename William
Father surname LOCK
Mother forename Elizabeth

Burial
County Norfolk
Place Pulham Market
Church name St Mary Magdalene
Register type Parish Register
Register entry number 324
Burial date 10 Aug 1832
Person age 56
Burial person forename Elizabeth
Burial person surname LOCK

(in case of Parents, by any chance!, from below link)

http://www.freereg.org.uk/

Chris :)

AustinQ

AustinQ Report 9 Apr 2016 07:30

Perhaps you could email Ken Lock:

https://www.scribd.com/doc/46252320/Thesis-Male-Lock-e-s-Born-in-South-and-West-of-Norwich-Norfolk-England-During-16th-to-Mid-19th-Century-V1-0a

William Lock bc1809 (or c1808, or c1811?) in Pulham (S of Norwich),assumed to William Lock bc1777 and Elizabeth Tumner. This William shown in the Westminster St Margaret, Middlesex 1851 census (aged 42i.e. bc1809), a bricklayer, living with his younger wife (aged 34) Mary Abc1817 in High Wycombe, Buckinghamshire and son (aged 7) Joseph Lock bc1844 in High Wycombe. Also shown in the Lambeth St Mary 1861census (aged 53 i.e. bc1808), a bricklayer, living with his wife (aged 48) Mary Ann bc1813 and son (aged 18) Joseph W Lock bc1843, a collector,both in Wycombe, Bucks (not born in Sussex, as recorded). This William and Mary Ann were possibly parents of William Walter Locke b1844, and possibly a related to Henry Lock bc1780, John Locke (or Lock?) bc1804 (or c1801, or b1807), James Lock bc1812 and James Lockbc1818

Julie

Julie Report 8 Apr 2016 22:58

Yes your correct Austin - not thinking straight she would be Lock

AustinQ

AustinQ Report 8 Apr 2016 17:34

If that's her death that Malyon put up at 8 Apr 2016 16:39, then she never married William Lock.

Julie

Julie Report 8 Apr 2016 17:06

Malyon that is the correct son - just need to find parents records now. It could well be her death though

Julie

Julie Report 8 Apr 2016 17:05

Kath I don't believe that is the marriage as they seem to have stayed around High Wycombe - unfortunately I cant see a marriage there :(

KathleenBell

KathleenBell Report 8 Apr 2016 16:59

There is a marriage to a John Lock:-

First name(s) Mary Ann
Last name Wright
Marriage year 1867
Marriage date 09 Feb 1867
Parish St George
Place East Stonehouse, St George
Spouse's first name(s) John
Spouse's last name Lock
Denomination Anglican
City or town Stonehouse, Plymouth
County Devon
Archive South West Heritage Trust
Record set Devon Marriages

or a marriage much later to a William Lock:-

First name(s) MARY
Last name WRIGHT
Marriage quarter 1
Marriage year 1877
Registration month -
MarriageFinderâ„¢ MARY WRIGHT married one of these people
*****WILLIAM FRANCIS LOCK*****, WILLIAM FERGUSON
District PLYMOUTH
District number -
County Devon
Country England
Volume 5B
Page 419

Kath. x

malyon

malyon Report 8 Apr 2016 16:48

Name Joseph W Lock
Event Type Census
Event Date 1881
Event Place Lambeth, London,Surrey, England
Registration District Lambeth
Residence Note Larkhall Lane
Gender Male
Age 38
Marital Status (Original) Married
Occupation Commercial Traveller (Color Tech)
Relationship to Head of Household Head
Birth Year (Estimated) 1843
Birthplace High Wycombe, Buckinghamshire, England
Page Number 17
Registration Number RG11
Piece/Folio 605/12
Affiliate Record Type Household
Joseph W Lock Head M 38 High Wycombe, Buckinghamshire, England
Jane Lock Wife F 36 Clapham, Surrey, England
Arthur F W Lock Son M 12 Islington, Middlesex, England
George C Lock Son M 9 Lambeth, Surrey, England
Louisa M Lock Daughter F 5 Lambeth, Surrey, England
Harry J Lock Son M 3 Lambeth, Surrey, England
Rosina M Lock Daughter F 1 Lambeth, Surrey, England


malyon

malyon Report 8 Apr 2016 16:39

found this mary ann

Mary Ann Wright
England and Wales Death Registration Index 1837-2007
birth: 1813
death: 1891 Wycombe, Buckinghamshire, England

Julie

Julie Report 8 Apr 2016 16:08

If I can find the marriage I will purchase the certificate to help find the births.

Julie

Julie Report 8 Apr 2016 15:53

I purchased the birth certificate of Joseph William - their son