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Can anybody tell me what the connection is between Tobin, Haynes & Heseldin

you'll have to come up with some more information here before anyone can attempt to help you :-)

They all use the letter "N" in there surname

Roy

Im Annemarie born in Bangor North Wales ,my mother Tobin born in 1934 in liverpool, father is James haynes born 1922 in widnes, a member Diane Heseldin has said Im family but shes not answering and I want to know how we are related

Are you saying that a member by the name of Diane Heseldin has you in her tree? and that you have contacted her but had no reply back? at all?

It's against GR rules to have living people in your tree IF you don't have their permission, You could contact GR directly and ask them to remove yourself from that tree,

Roy

Thanks for the advise Roy, if she got in touch and explained I wouldn't have minded

Have removed it Roy thanks

Lots of reasons why your not getting a reply, Has your message been opened?

trees stay on GR unless the relavant member deletes it, most don't so when they leave or die or are unable for what ever reason to continue the tree stays

Roy

How do I fined if they have been opened? sorry im a beginner with computers. :-)

Go to your sent messages and if you have an envelope at the left side of your sent message then it's NOT been opened

Roy

thanks very much, they havent been opened

Your welcome

Roy

The member's name is Diana not Diane.

If you search for Diana Heseldin on here, you will find 3 people called Diana with her in their trees - probably all the same person but with different membership numbers. Try contacting all of them. (Possibly one is entered under their married name)

Thanks very much for the help :-)

Is your mother alive?

If she is, you must remove her exact DOB from your post

Please read site guidelines................

Two members other than Diana have Patricia in GR trees

yes im in contact with them, thanks for your advise

well this is getting more confusing for me, i got a reply back today but ive been told they are no connection, but is it possible you can get three people more in 1979 from the same town and not connected, :-|

You might just be a 'twig' on her tree - some people extend all branches as far as they can take them even if they aren't blood relatives. On that basis, she could be right in that she has 'no connection'

Try going back to her and give the names of your parents. Ask her to search her tree again as your name has come up on a tree search as being listed. As there is another female with your name but born in 1976, she might have made assumptions from a known fact.

If you have/had a partner, check if s/he is also listed - that might be the extended connection.

GR will remove the names of living relatives if you get no joy.

Simple answer is yes you can, That is why accurate research requires documentary evidance to back up any info found.

Roy