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Finding my real parents

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Fiona

Fiona Report 9 Mar 2015 15:35

I have now found my birth mother Beverley Goudie as a married name, now i want to find who my father is?
I believe he's called Barry Gouldie got married to Beverley Pell that's how I found my birth mother sadly she wants to be left alone mind you how that feels words can't describe it. They got married in early 1970's. I was born June 1969
I so wanting to find out who my father is, is it him. I had found a Barry Gouldie on facebook fars I'm aware of he is in Kettering not far from my birth mother also in Kettering. Can anyone can help on this. Many thanks in advance x

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Kettering, Letchworth

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Click ADD REPLY button - not this link! Report 9 Mar 2015 16:17

If they married after you were born, then you can't assume he is your father.

There was another daughter born shortly after the marriage.

Do you have your birth certificate and adoption papers? If he's not listed on there, only Beverley will know who he is.

Rose

Researching:
I am not related to you and I'm not your husband's first wife!

PricklyHolly

PricklyHolly Report 9 Mar 2015 16:17

Hi Fiona and welcome to the boards.

There is a Barry Goudie on the Electoral Roll living in Kettering.

You can check him out here.......

http://www.freeelectoralroll.co.uk/

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"If I don't see you through the week.........I will see you through the window". :o))

JoonieCloonie

JoonieCloonie Report 11 Mar 2015 00:11

Fiona, it must be difficult indeed to get this response from your mother.

However, talking about her on the internet is still an invasion of her privacy. She just may not want the world to know about her personal life. And the world can see anything you post at this site.

You should use the 'Edit' link at the top of your message to delete her name from your message.

Best wishes in your search.

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