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unfortunately nigel was not allowed any contact as the farther of the young lady was adamant about this . pam and Richard both offerd to assist financially but this was also refused as well as the name not being allowed on the birth cert...so unfortunately they have no information or any idea where to start.
regards ali... pam and Richard.

Didn't the child's father pay maintenance?

thank you so much.. I understand pam and Richard have put ads in newpapers to help find him.. your advice is great thankyou
regards ali

Once you have a date (or even year) of birth, you might have to purchase all the BC with the first name Mathew born around then.

Start with those the registration area which includes Swindon. Look for ones registered with the same surname as the mother's maiden name. If you're lucky, Mathew might be double entered with his father's surname - that would depend if his father was present when the birth was registered.

http://www.gro.gov.uk/gro/content/

Double check the spelling of the name - it usually has two Ts.

The grandparents might want to consider putting an advert in a local paper, asking for contact from anyone who worked at the hotel or knew Nigel. No need to give the exact reason - that could be followed up if anyone makes contact.

They might have a problem finding the mother if she didn't have family in the area - depending on the size of the hotel, employees could have come from anywhere in the world.

Check to see if the Hotel has a listing in the work place section on Friends Reunited.

Suggest that they add as many details as they can to http://www.missing-you.net/
Even though its closing down in Dec, people can still reply to posts.

we don't have any details at all which is why its so hard to find him ..pam and Richard( Mathews grandparents) have not done a family tree...ime a family friend who's helping them out.. I have registerd them both on here as they need assistance with finding him, ile be popping round there today but I will ring this morning to see if they have a birth date for Mathew.. it would be so lovley for them to find him ..thank you for your message..
regards ali

Do you have a year of birth for Mathew (or could it be Matthew?)

Do you know if Nigel's name was on the birth certificate?

Is Nigel in your tree on here?

Thanks

please can anyone help us?
we are looking for our grandson Mathew( surname unknown) Mathews farther was called nigel Kelly and sadly he is no longer with us..we are desperate to find our grandson who possibly might be living in the newbury/ Swindon area.. our son nigel worked in a hotel in the 80's in this area but the hotel has been knocked down now.. he was friendly with a girl who also worked in the hotel with nigel and we think her farther had a building firm..please can anybody help us and of course wishes will be respected..we would love to be in contact with our only grandson..
thank you in advance.. Richard and Pamela kelly