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Deanna

Deanna Report 6 Sep 2009 18:19

Hi Colin, mine was in the bowel too and was December 2001. I was in hospital for my Tony's 30th birthday.
We gave his friend Lisa, who got married last Saturday, money for a cake and dinner at a local restaurant..... He was livid!
I loved it, it is my responsibility as a mother , to embarrass my child.... ha ha ha , and I am sooooo good at it.
Love to all, And I hope your family is fine Colin.

Love Deanna XXXX

Treehunter

Treehunter Report 7 Sep 2009 11:42

Hi everyone, Not been on here much as been busy with doing family tree for others as well as my own.

Been away with my mate for the weekend to do with her Harmer family, went to big meet Saturday and then on the Sunday went into Eastbounre to do bit of grave hunting.

Now i am feeling very low as the 14th is a year since my mum passed away.
Was coping very well untill today. I want to go somewhere to remeber her but at the moment dont know where thats going to be. Went to the house where she and most of the kids were born last week with a brother sister in law and one of my sister.


Just like to leave {{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{[HUGS}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}]] to anyone who needs them.

Hazelx

Purple **^*Sparkly*^** Diamond

Purple **^*Sparkly*^** Diamond Report 10 Sep 2009 04:00

Just a quick visit to say hi to all.

Hazel, sending you hugs as it comes closer to the anniversary of the loss of your mum, I hope you can find something nice to do in her memory.

Hope everyone is ok, I laughed when I read about the stilettos lol, I didn't wear them a lot but still have a couple of pairs I bought in the 80's. I stopped wearing heels when I met o.h. cos he is only the same height as me barefooted and I didn't like towering over him. Went against all my natural instincts to get involved with someone shorter than me - silly me! I loved all my heeled shoes but can't wear them now with arthritis in one toe and my ankles and knees. I do have some smart heeled shoes for posh occasions, it doesn't bother me now if I am taller than he is lol
I know several of my friends who wore stilettos and later on had to have ops for awful bunion problems, luckily my feet managed to resist those.

love to all, especially those I haven't 'spoken' to in a while, our Lily, Eileen and Gail, and everyone else.

Colin, what a lovely supportive man you are, how lucky your Denise is to have you in her life

Lizxx

YorkshireCaz

YorkshireCaz Report 10 Sep 2009 09:37

Colin, I didn't mean to offend you with the mention of gout, lol, but it was those Victorian cartoons you see of old men with their big toe bandaged and up on a stool, glass of port in one hand, cigar in the other. Anyway sorry and I hope yours is not too painful.
I went for my bone scan yesterday, after the injection we went out into the hospital grounds and sat in the sun for two hours, it was lovely and peaceful.
When I had the scan I had to lie flat, well some of you know I can't do that, it was agony so the girl put a prop under my knees which made it better. When it came to getting up, I couldn't, it was so painful to even try to move onto my side, she had to go and get Richard who had done the photos and they both helped me up. I have ct scan on Monday so it will be the same again. At least we had a laugh when I was upright, it was Richard who had given me the injection and took three goes. He said he was going to take the day off if he sees my name again, he was one of the three who took over an hour trying to find a vein for injection a couple of times ago, then sent me home to come back the week after,he mentioned it yesterday when called to get me up lol.

Does anyone know how long it takes between the Google car camera taking pictures and it ending up on Google maps ? A couple of weeks ago hubby said oh Google car is coming down the street, of course I stuck my head out of the kitchen window just as he was passing. He turned round at the bottom and came back up the street, I just hope I got my head back in in time.

Hazel I will be thinking of you on the 14th and sending a big hug.

Love and hugs to all.

Caz xx

Sharron

Sharron Report 10 Sep 2009 09:54

It came along here weeks ago.I was leaning down on the wall talking to a neighbour.Huge bum in the air like an eclipse of the sun.Please let them airbrush that out!

YorkshireCaz

YorkshireCaz Report 10 Sep 2009 10:22

Lol, had to laugh at the image Sharron, sorry,lol. It's embarrasing though if I'm stuck nosying out of the window, oh well that's life I suppose.

Caz xx

Carole

Carole Report 10 Sep 2009 10:42

Nice to read all you lovely peoples news again. Caz and Sharron
it would be funny to see you both on google. Bit like wheres wally!!! lol.

Hazel why not go sit in a park/garden and think of your mum? Somewhere quiet, and green.

Deanna it's a wonder your T has anything to do with you! Fancy embarressing him like that, and taking such pleasure from it xxx

Colin (nice to see you ) you are such a caring man we see it in your posts over and over. Your GF is a lucky woman xx

Liz I used to love high heels. Never wear them now. I like a smaller heel, kitten are my favs. I think my favorite foot wear is a pair of black leather knee length boots I bought last year. They have a good heel but not like the ankle breakers girls are wearing now!! xx Not long to your holiday

Ann when are you two going away again? x

I go on Oct 2nd. Long flight which I am not looking forward to. We used to go on the upper deck where there were only about 30 seats it was so much quieter and no children under 10. Now we are with a different air company so oh booked seats in the lower big cabin. Keeping the cost down!

I'm back at the Drs this afternoon. Feeling lots better but not 100% just yet. Results of blood test should be there.

Dutch thanks for the photo of your beautiful new g grandaughter she really is a cutie pie xxx

Gail hope you are not still poorly. If you are it's hanging on to you again. You took ages to shake off the last lot you had didn't you. xxx

Mary you are quiet. I'm getting worried about you, it's so not you. xx

Eileen you to. Tell us all about your holiday. What did you do? xx

Anyone had any news from Alison in OZ? Alison if you look in please just say hi so we know all is okay there.xxx

GranOfOzRubySlippers

GranOfOzRubySlippers Report 10 Sep 2009 13:03

Yes, still having trouble shaking this horrid flu, up coughing all night, as soon as it gets dark the cough starts, so very tired. OH is having trouble shaking it this time as well, it went through his work like a tornado, and about 80% of the town as well. OH has the flu jab, and still got it badly, but from what he has been told it is probably swine flu, as those that bothered to try and get into the doctors have been told that is what they have.

It is supposed to be spring, but not as much blossom this year, not enough rain this year, though the clover is growing well. Have chickens starting to go broody, but not setting any eggs yet, as the nights are still too cold. I opened my office window on good days and I get the sent of the violets coming through the window, it is so lovely. My daffodils have finished, the jonquils are still flowering and the wallflowers are starting to reshoot and small seedlings sprouting.

My favourite shoe is just bare feet, only wear shoes when going out of the yard mostly. OH makes me wear shoes outside in the winter though. I like to feel what is under my feet, saves a lot of falls. Although, I do not like the bindies or burs or catheads in my feet. I do remember having stilettos though I did not wear them much, I have usually had chunkier heals, probably because when I was younger worked on my feet most of the time. Plus, they did hurt, but I was very much a tomboy so usually wore sensible shoes. Boring person I must be. My favourite shoes/boots at the moment are a type of moccasin/boot that are brown and up to the mid calf with loads of blue and red beading on them, and wool lined. The sole is strong but very light so can mostly feel through the bottom easily, I do get some funny looks when wearing them, but they are very comfortable and warm.

Love and hugs

Gail

AnninGlos

AnninGlos Report 10 Sep 2009 13:11

Hi everyone,
Carol we go away on Saturday to Dorset for a week, no overseas holidays booked until May next year at the moment.

Caz, nice to be able to spend 2 hours enjoying the sun, sorry but I had a chuckle at them having to haul you up, Do let us know if you appear on the google map wont you? Also you Sharron, not that we will be able to recognize the part of you on display!!!

Gail, sorry to hear that you are still not well, hopefully you will shake it when you get some nice weather. When I was a child we had Australian neighbours for a while (Naval I think on assignment), they had two children and neither of them ever wore shoes, even catching the bus into town, we found it very strange.

Ann
Glos

GranOfOzRubySlippers

GranOfOzRubySlippers Report 10 Sep 2009 13:40

Ann in glos, my OH also finds it very strange, he hates having bare feet, but then his parents are from Yorkshire. I used to do my shopping in bare feet, shoes were left in the car, where I grew up the only place you had to wear them was at a club. My dad did not own a pair of shoes until he was 15, said it was very harsh in the winter. I can walk on surfaces that my OH cannot as my feet are tough and his are not, but mine are very sensitive as to what is under them. Funny thing though OH has had many cuts on his feet and I have never had any.

The only person in my family to always wear shoes was my mother, everyone else loved having bare feet most of the time. I have never suffered with problems with my feet, yet OH constantly has foot problems.

The area where I live, nobody looks twice if you do not have shoes on, especially in the warmer months.

Gail

maxiMary

maxiMary Report 10 Sep 2009 22:08

Well I'm here - in short spurts. had probs with my keyboard after Sarah dumped a pile of milk powder on it, then some sticky liquid followed, not sure what.
Plus, the past week has been wild - getting ready for school, going to a new school, the dog is sick, think she may have something malignant (the smell tells a nurse the diagnosis), was going to take her to the vet today but I can't lift her into the van alone.
Last week we decided that Sarah and Gareth's bedroom carpets must be lifted. Underneath we founf 130y/o wood , must have been beautiful once, but unable to refinish due to the length of time and dust involved.
We've made 3 separate decisions as to the replacement in the past week, meanwhile both rooms and the hall are rough wood, and the rooms are empty - we have finally settled on wood - no carpet, no laminate., Should be done this weekend. So everyone has been living in my flat. Chaos has erupted yet again.
Mini Mary's bag project is doing well, she sold 16 bags today!!! The dining room no longer exists, just a sewing centre. I am dreaming about bags LOL. Have orders for 6 more to be done by the weekend. I find I am pretty well settled in front of the machine(s) all day. I'm her helper LOL.
We are also organising a big fundraiser evening, perhaps inappropriately it will be at the senior citizens centre in town, 10 mins away, hall holds 400 people. A friend seems to be helping more than I am, she's organising prizes and raffle donations etc. Emlyn plays with a little girl round the corner, whose Daddy has a band, we hope thay may be available that evening.
I LOVE bare feet, but having woken up to the fact that every time I fall I am bare-footed, I am now trying to make myself wear lace-up shoes in the house for safety, as there is a big ceramic floor, where I usually take my spills LOL
Been fighting a migraine headache all week, heavy clouds and a touch of stress.
May I ask - does anyone live in or near Cheam/Sutton area in Surrey? My cousin has to have hip replacement surgery in November, and her husband will have to go into a care home of some kind while she's recuperating. She's hoping to find a good home, but I wonder if anyone has any personal knowledge of local care homes.
I am a bit ragged around the edges, but generally feeling better since I retired and then took a casual job at the same home. So I only go in now when needed, so nice, don't miss the routine, though I miss the staff and residents. (some of each , more than others)
Thank you for your concern, I am just really busy and hesitate to sit down in case I fall asleep LOL.
Mary

AnninGlos

AnninGlos Report 11 Sep 2009 21:36

Gail, at first we thought it was because they couldn't afford shoes Lol!!! I seem to remember the boy having to start wearing shoes when he went to High School (My school).

Mary, you sound really tired, poor you. When do you hope to get the dogs?

Treehunter

Treehunter Report 14 Sep 2009 15:21

{{{{{{{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}}}}}}}}FOR EVERYONE

Hazelx

Sydneybloke

Sydneybloke Report 15 Sep 2009 11:14

Good to see many of the regulars posting in the last couple of days. We do seem to be going through a bit of rough time. Special thoughts to Mary, it has been a bit tough. Milk powder and keyboards do not mix.
One of mine died after I spilled a glass of water on it. At work fortunately, so I didn't have to buy a new one. My then boss coffee'd his. It died even more quickly.
I was interested to see the discussion about bare feet. I have always worn shoes, so my feet are soft, but I have known people who didn't wear shoes. One reason to shun avoid them is the problem of finding shoes that fit. I have odd size feet, with a big bunion on one. After years of struggling with shoes taht were in hindsight were just a little small and narrow, I have found a brand of walking shoes that are broad, and maybe half a size bigger than what teh shop assistant says is my size. Only problem is the cost. About 200 dollars AUD- 100 pounds GB. I think it is worth it, though.
Hugs, Hazel, Liz, Caroles. Caz Yorks, I wasn't offended, just having a gentle dig back. I also have seen those cartoons. My sin is probably hereditary, not enough water and too much red meat. If you can believe it, I am an Aussie who doesn't drink beer. Or Port. :-)))

GranOfOzRubySlippers

GranOfOzRubySlippers Report 15 Sep 2009 11:33

Hi to all from the barefoot granny. I had to go and set some chickens with eggs tonight, and usually do it of a night as does not disturb the hens too much. I have brooder pens for setting the eggs, as is easier for the hens to get a feed and keep an eye on the chickens when they hatch. Well I put shoes on, shock horror. Well ask me why? It is snake season, they are out early this year, so made sure I had long loose trousers and sturdy shoes in case I stepped on a snake in the dark.

Biggest problem it is the brown snakes that I have seen this year, and just out of hibernation they are very angry buggers and also very fast and at this time of year they are also whip thin. Had the browns chase me a few times. Now, the red belly black snake I do not mind as they are loads shyer and usually only pass through going to the river. But, I really hate the brown snakes and the tiger snake, they are both so aggressive. So looks like this year I am going to get some gumboots just in case.

We also look like we may be in drought again, not much rain through the winter and a very dry spring so far.

Hope everyone is well.

Love and hugs

Gail

*** Mummo ***

*** Mummo *** Report 15 Sep 2009 11:51

Hi all, oh Gail there is no way l could live where you are, lam petrified of snakes even reading your post made me go cold, ahhhh. ( quick change the subject, lol.)
Talking about bare feet, l love it when l've been out , first thing l do is kick shoes off, nothing like the feeling of having nothing on your feet. l donot even like wearing slippers.
Hope everyone is having a good day, take care, x

clairejo

clairejo Report 15 Sep 2009 11:59

Hello ~~~~~~~ to everyone.
Trying to keep myself busy here, 3 days no cigs and its the hardest day today. I have just has a bacon butty and it feels weird not to be outside smoking now. So am going to go upstairs and change the beds busy busy busy.
Love to all
Claire (who also never wears shoes unless absolutely necessary)
xxxx

GranOfOzRubySlippers

GranOfOzRubySlippers Report 15 Sep 2009 12:01

Mummo, just to let you know I am pressing four leafed clovers now, manage to find a few last week, so once they are dried they will be on their way.

Gail

AnninGlos

AnninGlos Report 15 Sep 2009 16:14

Gail I still have the ones you sent to me, they live in my 'office' by my PC.

Ugh snakes, don't know how you cope with the horrible things especially the ones that move fast.

Carole

Carole Report 15 Sep 2009 16:52

Gail thanks for the four leaved clover book mark you sent me last year I still use it. But please keep the snakes!! Are you any better now?

I have cold feet a lot of the time, so like to have somefootware on them.

Betty hope all is getting better for you. xx

Claire I'll be watching you, making sure you don't have a puff on a ciggie xx

Have to take Coco to the vet tonight, it's that time of year when he gets bit, no sign of anything on him, but sores where he scratches. Poor Coco.