General Chat

OKAY.... ANN ..... I'm going, I'm going,
I promised so I have to. lol

Liz I have just read your piece again.... what would your husband do if you just followed him into the room with the doctor?
Men are so funny aren't they?
I took my husband AND son with me when I went to speak to the surgeon.
what happens then is, you have an extra pair of ears... in my case two pair..... so if you get confused, someone else will remember.

Caz, I know exactly what you mean.... if I get another pain!!!

Joyce I know where you are coming from.... the fly is my biggest annoyance.
AND yes... they have better reflexes that anyone I know.

well I have to go now, and may see you alter.
I wish I could remember everyones names as some of you do... but I don't so can I just say.
Love to all who need it and have a lovely day.
Deanna XX

joyce sound's like you'll have a new friend and life won't be dull. better to have someone you can have a laugh with.

Afternoon everyone hope you are all having a good day? Would anyone like a headache?? lol
Rachx

for everyone that has a dark clould over them keep looking up a little ray of sun shine will one day shine on you. it's just someday's you'll have to look hard to see it!

hi rach no but I wouldn't mind a 6ft millonaire any chance

good day everyone, it was good for me the other day to have a moan on here, I was feeling bad and the day didn't get any better, it seemed to last for ever.
Thankfully today is another day, it's bright and sunny which is good but am still finding it hard to shake myself.
I hate talking about the how's and why's of my problems, sometimes it makes me very ill so I avoid it whenever I can, and I shouldn't say this but I know some of you can get the same feelings and know how dreadful they are but it does help to know others feel the same way (I don't want them to go through what I feel I would rather they were better). I am rambling now so I will get off
Much love Janet

I'll see what I can do Irene *googles eligable millionaires* lol

welcome janet your not rambulling this is the perfect place to get thing off your chest anytime of the day or night you sound like your already having a better day one step at a time. sending you a pat on the back and a big hug x irene

Hi Janet anyone is so lovely on here and I am sending you a big hug too
Rachx

Thanks folks, this thread is very valuable to anyone who needs it
Janet

wow I never thought of that. only I don't know how i'd explain him to oh then again could give hubby a big red sport's car wouldn't see him for dust LOL

true suppose you could try it eh? lol

janet this is the frist place I have felt safe enough to talk with other women about my problems have sister's but they alway's finished telling mum. so called girl friends. we'll sooner or later there'd be a bitch fight between them and I'd be the one in the middle or there boy friend's would hit on me so gave them up as a bad joke. Here I can talk about anything without it getting twisted or being talked of behind my back well now Iam rambulling

you carry on Irene I think this is the loveiest thread on the boards
Rachx

well it's 11.45pm here time for this little black duck to go to bed and dream of her millionaire at least then mite have a smile on my face when hubby get's home LOL ( shouldn't say thing's like that you mite get the wrong idea of him sweet man my hubby but he will think his luck has changed) night to all lol,lol

Nite love sweet dreams
Rachxxx

Isn't it good to have a thread where we all feel safe? Rach, no thanks I don't want your headache and I hope you don't have it for long. have you taken anything for it?

Deanna, I forget who has posted too so never answer everyone. Should use paper and ppen to make notes I suppose! I took my OH in with me when i saw the surgeon too. i would never have remembered it all.

Ann
Glos

read up to date from where I left off yesterday. Pm'd a few but to everyone else hi ~~~ I'm thinking of you, but I feel I should sit with oh for a while!! See how long until he jumps in the seat here !!! xxx Later xx

Gill,please stay, we all NEED each other, this is the best thread in which I have ever been privileged to participate. there is so much caring. Our friends who don't have depression cannot understand why we just cannot get our feet on the floor some days, but the friends on here DO understand, and help pick us up, because we know they really do "get it".
You are part of this wonderful group and i for one, would hate to see you leave.
Sending warm hugs,
maxiMary

Gill
I too have been very depressed this last few weeks but the last few days have been the worst, having lived with this for over 40 years I have come to know the ins and outs of what is happening and these alst few days are the times i hate most. Nothing is right, everything is a mountain and everyone is against me, there is no end but I have come to see that there will be an end and try hard to battle through.Thankfully my o/h is begining to understand and accept how I am (9 years married).
I don't think it is a matter of you staying away but coming back when you feel you can
Take care
Janetx