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Member Since: February 2004 Posts: 681 Send Message	Scrummy	Report	30 Apr 2004 15:11
	firstly I would enclose a stamped addressed envelope, and say that if there is no reply to pse post it back to you, just sealed. You could ask if they had any knowledge of your mother, you dont have to say the reason that you need to know. I would try and get a mediator to help you if you have any luck in finding him, it can be very traumatic especially if he does not want to get in touch with you. good luck brenda
Member Since: April 2004 Posts: 0 Send Message	Mary	Report	30 Apr 2004 14:25
Member Since: April 2004 Posts: 0 Send Message	you might think me mad but pray ask our heavenly father for help. I'll understand if you feel you can't pray other suggestion, write letter or phone each one explaining your looking for your natural father giving details if possible such as mothers name, also tell them you don't want to cause upset in their life but that you would really like to find your father,hope this helps a little love mary.
Member Since: November 2003 Posts: 24 Send Message	Carol	Report	30 Apr 2004 13:47
Member Since: November 2003 Posts: 24 Send Message	having found 93 men with my natural fathers name how is best so as not upset whittle these down or ring the ones with numbers i am a bit apprehensive any ideas please?