General Chat

Dear Gaynor As always putting Rob and your family first! You have so much courage and dignity a true inspiration to us all. My relative I told you about is still hanging in there and I hope it will be the same for you. One day at a time enjoy them all! Much love Linda x

Gaynor, You are one hell of a lady! I have always thought of you with affection and admiration, and continue to do so more than ever. Love and Hugs June xxxx

Thankyou Gaynor for sharing all this with us. We've never met I know, but I want you to know you are in my thoughts and prayers. God bless you. Jo.

Gaynor Thank you for bringing us up to date. I had been wondering exactly what was what. You deserve a couple of medals for bravery and honesty. My own mother-in-law had inoperable cancer and was given a matter of weeks to live after diagnosis. She made it to nearly 2 years, and they were life-affirming, positive years, no time for self-pity. She was truly an inspiration, as you are too. Enjoy yourself. Much love nell

hi gaynor I'd just like like to say how much I admire your spirit and positive attitude. love and hugs to all of you. jenny x

Gaynor what can i say that has,nt already been said , My heart goes out to you and your family . Val xxxxxxxx

Gaynor You are so very brave - I just don't think I could be as strong as you. I said it earlier today and I'll say it again...you have so many friends here that love and care for you. I just wish that our love was enough... Kim xx

Gaynor - Your courage and candour are inspirational, stay positive. Sheila xx

May we all find the same depth of strength to support and help you through as you have found to accept and tell us about your condition. Great admiration for someone who is obvioulsy a remarkable lady. Love and hugs to you all. Jacky xx

Gaynor, Thank you for going into detail as I thought it might be too intrusive to ask. What can I say that has not already been said.? You are loved by all your friends on genes. Love hugs and prayers to you and your family. Lindy xx

Gaynor, you are an inspiration to us all, much love to you and your family, karen x

Gaynor, I don't mind admitting that i did get upset but i had to read it. Please carry on being strong cos you're one helluva courageous lady!! My love, hugs and kisses to you all. Tracey xx

yes gaynor we're all here for you and the family.love and hugsxxxxxx(:

Ann, Jack, my daughter is 31 and my son John is 28. Yes, they will both be there for Rob even though he is not their dad - they both think the world of him. I tell everybody I had my daughter when I was 12 !!! Think it might be time to come clean!! Many of you have asked and I should have put it in the thread - I am 50. Lots of love Gaynor xxx

Gaynor You are one very brave Lady, you are an inspiration to us all. Dont rush around too much sit and rest now and again. Love to you and all your Family. Debbie XXX

Gaynor, thank you for sharing that with us and I hope it also helped you to write it all down. I think you have us all in awe of your courage. You teach us all a lesson that we should be enjoying every minute of every day because we just don't know what is round the corner, and the other lesson is that life is too short for petty squabbles. I don't know you personally, although we have shared these boards for some months, but from now on you are certainly my role model. I hope that, if ever I am in similar circumstances to you I will be as positive and brave. I hope that your positive attitude to this invasion of your body will prolong good quality life for you. How old are your children Gaynor? I know your daughter has been on here so I feel they are old enough to support Rob and vice versa. Please do tell them that we are here for all of them if they want to chat, and I am sure they can also e mail any of us any time too. for yourself, and you have to put yourself first now. Do what you enjoy doing, laughter is good medicine and you get plenty of that on here. Take care. with love Ann Glos

i admire you Gaynor, actually i admire you and Rob. To be honest words fail me, but i am sending you both warm hugs, love and kisses. -x-x-x-

((((((((( Gaynor )))))))))) - what can I say? I only know you through my Mum who has always spoken of you with affection and respect, and even though we have never met, I do feel that you are someone I have warm regard for. I admire you courage and strength which is inspirational. Love and sincerest best wishes Gaynor, June nr Preston's daughter xxxxxxxxxxxxx p.s. It's not over till it's over

Yes Gaynor, you are really remarkable. Although I myself have had cancer, I could get by with only ........(can't remember the English name) treatments. I had 22 in all and 1 internal. I believe chemotherapy is much harsher, and then what.............? Mind you in the next 6 months they could come through with a breakthrough. A local shopkeeper here was also diagnosed negative with so many months to live, but had a second opinion and he's still with us. Don't give up!! Thinking about you every day, Sylvia xxx

Gaynor Thanks for the update Hun we are with you all the way as you know Huggggssss much love Jan