General Chat

Hi guys, 4 says into my separation and I must say it's easier than i thought!! My little flat is becoming more girlie every day, lots of PINK everywhere.... and it's great knowing what i left out will still be there when I get home!! Must admit that it's early days yet and i know the going will get tougher but I am holding things together and with the help of you guys and my pals I will survive!! Good old gloria!! ;O) Not looking for replies.... just wanted you all to know that i am so grateful for your replies and emails and I'm glad I decided to do that tree now even if it was started by researching his side of things!! ;O)

Good on ya Di, You should go to New York for your christmas shopping and send him the bills, ahh would'nt it be lovely. Best wishes take care Lynda

hi diana i am so pleased you are getting your new home and life together, and are ok good luck sandra

Chin up Diana, every day is a new day1..

Good for you Dianne! Lindy;-)

good for you diana, keep smiling love melinda xx

What is that saying "today is the first day of the rest of your life". Good luck Ann Glos

good on you di.i know that it's early days but as gloria says i will survive.whenever you feel down just think of that song.has got alot of people through relationship breakdowns in the past and they've never looked back.love and hugsxxxxxx(:

Well just concentrate on your tree now. We are all here to help....just ask! Glad you are settled in. Linda x

Your doing fine, you will be fine. This new life and all its wonderfull possibilities has opened up for you. Enjoy it. Elaine x

hope things get easier for you, seperation is no easy thing whatever the circumstances good luck for your future tracey x

Often think of you, Di, hoping you are coping. Keep in touch. Joy

Well done Diana, keep going. Thinking of you. Jo.

Good for you Diana, glad to hear that you are doing well. Love Mandy x

di we should organise a g.c girly night in on the thread.just to chat ,drink wine and have funxxx(:

Well done love, keep it up, things can only get better. Love and hugs from Bridget x

Well done Diana..........thank goodness you remembered to take the pc ;) It wont be a smooth journey, but make yourself a pledge - for every moment that you feel 'down'.......do something nice for 'you', that makes you feel better/happy/special.......then eventually all the 'down' moments will disappear :)

Let us know when the flat warming party is and we'll all bring a bottle if you like.

all the best Diana we have too stick together as in names all Diana's know how to do it

Bless you all, me was naughty last night and went and bought 2 cushions for my sofa, £37 for the pair and they were in the sale!! ;O) But hey they make the sofa look so so pretty!! I used gift vouchers so I don't feel too awful!! Money is tight and will be tile the end of the month so lots of nights in but hey I can deal with that!! Strangely I do believe that my special people above are looking out for me and making me calm. I have even started a thoughts diary and I am being brutually honest in there so if I ever feel like begging him to take me back I have promised myself to read that first and then I know I will be begging him to stay away!! I'm yet to get angry, and I am not sure I will as I now know that he can't sell the house without me knowing and I will get whats due to me!! Thanks again for all your support, it really does mean alot!!