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do u no what your gonna do yet???xxx

you don't get on with her then kylie.ask your husband to tell her if she doesn't want to talk to you then ring the phone for two rings put it down and then ring again.then she will not have to talk to you and you don't have to get mad.failing that get an answer phone so she can leave a message.love and hugsxxxx(:

my hubby has agreat relationship with my parents he could round have acuppa with them i couldnt do that with my in laws they were so horrible to me,my parents are great hubby feels very comfy there (so much so he was sick all over the toilet floor at my dads 50th and they cleaned it up ) and we are going now for our tea so see ya later

Definatly blow the whistle loud. Who does she think she is? Stupid cow. I'm a MIL and I would'nt dream of doing that. Jo.

I suppose i am really lucky, i get on really well with daves family, very close to his mum and dad, they sort of see me as another one of their kids i think!!!!! also get on very well with the rest of his family too! i know my mum had an awful time with my dads family, they were so nasty to her...but they are a load of di***s anyway, i dont talk to them, also had a cr*p time with my stepdads family, we dont talk to them anymore either!! xxx

It's strange you saying this today, my daughter e mailed earlier. Her boyfriend has moaned at her for not making an effort with his family. I was a bit put out when she asked what I thought, he doesn't make much effort with us really. He comes here lounges around the chairs, blows off frequently stinking the room out and plays on my sons gamecube at any opportunity. She gets on ok with his mum, the sisters have both been off with her at various times, she has been really generous with them too. What is she supposed to do. I know from my in laws you can't have a one way street it doesn't work. Diane

Hi Kylie, Block her phone number for a while,its a bit cheeky to put the phone down on you.I wouldnt put up with it,whats her problem? My mother -in -law used to ring and ask for my husband and ignore me so he ignored her for a while,didnt have do the trick.We come as a package and balls to anyone who doesnt accept it(God,Im fiesty today!).Dont put up with her ignorance Kylie,stand up for yourself and encourage your partner to do the same,Love,fee B x

Why don't you bar her number, then she'll have to write!! Just do it for a month and see what happens Diane

i agree with elaine and that you should just pick up the phone and say nothing, then when she does spak, say 'oh i almost forgot what you sound like, you always hang up on me!!!'

cant stand the woman !!!! told her before i left uk dont ring say you comming for holiday cos im going tell what im going to say now f*** off !!!! funny they havent asked to come for holiday wonder why :-)

she does it all the flippin time she rang on wedensday and hung up then rang back and hubby picked up 2 mins later and it was her ,when they ring at weekends father in law rings not her silly woman

i can see you get on really well with her Kylie lol

if was urgent she should say whats petes work number ,and i would give it to her silly c*w deserves the whistle down her ear

but Jenny if it's an emergengy then why doesn't she speak and it sounds like shes done it before, K

I'd blow the whistle too. My mother in law never wnated to speak to me. Sometimes she's just say can I talk to the other half and not even say hello. I put up with that sort of thing for 20 years. When father in law died, she was on the phone all the time wanting to talk to me. I wouldn't have minded so much but she had two daughter of her own on the doorstep. I used to spend absolute ages listening to her going on. Wish I had been more assertive and said what I thought a couple of times instead of taking all the cr*p. She died herself 18 months after the father in law. Left a lot of bitterness nothing was resloved. Dianex

Blow the whistle or just pick it up & say nothing, let her pay for the call. Ps every time you pick up the phone to her it costs her. E x

Hi Kylie, blow the whistle,i think that very rude just to put the phone down, Karen

Blow the whistle.... silly woman deserves it!!

my phone has rang about 5 times in the last hour and i have caller id which says it is an overseas call but when i pick up it goes dead i know that it is my mother in law she always does this it really makes me mad cos she dont wanna talk to me she wants my hubby but instaed saying hi and me saying he is at work she just hangs up ,have told hubby im going to use my whistle down the phone he tells me dont ,but its driving me mad what do i do ignore or blow whistle ,?