General Chat

Kylie - she was probably trying to help (IF she did it). We all have problems with our families, but we have to try to forgive and forget and get on with our lives as best we can. Be happy, in spite of the past. Life's too short for regrets!

Hi Kylie, Sounds like my father and me, so I can understand how you feel. Perhaps your sister was pretending to herself, or maybe she was trying to make YOU feel better. It mentions mothers, so other women were involved, now I know that can make a difference to a daughter/father relationship as there is always rivalary between the two. (I also know about that). It really is difficult to comment without knowing the full story. But at least you have got it off your chest. Take care, luv Jo. X.

Tina, that is exactly what I thought when I was reading it. Perhaps she is trying to get her feelings down to make sense of them. I also think you need to talk to her about it, maybe you can help eachother.

Hi Kylie, might it be possible that your Sister was really expressing her own hurt feelings at the treatment of your father? and really puting down what she would like to hear from him herself? why dont you have a talk with her as she is probably hurting as much as you obviously are, i send my best wishes for you Tina

what is she jealous of? u must have something she doesnt and that is obvious to us you have love and kind heartedness and she doesnt. forget her.

kylie how do you now it was her and how did she manage to do it. it sounds very dubious to me. she would have had to rgister a new email addy saying it was him and that is a bit far fetched for belief. it takes a computer genius to do that much. she sounds like an evil person to do that. forget her and him and move on with what u have in life already. you are worth more than her vicious lies. mo

kylie how do you now it was her and how did she manage to do it. it sounds very dubious to me. she would have had to rgister a new email addy saying it was him and that is a bit far fetched for belief. it takes a computer genius to do that much. she sounds like an evil person to do that. forget her and him and move on with what u have in life already. you are worth more than her vicious lies. mo

Maybe your sister wasn't trying to be cruel or funny. Perhaps she thought it would mean so much to you to hear from your father and to 'hear' those words, that she did it in the hope of helping you to put something to rest. Only you know your sister and whether this is a possible explanation. Jacky :-)

i found an email on my system saying it was from my father and got very happy about the fact he had finally admitted what he did to his kids was wrong ,but i later found out my sister had got into his email system and had typed it, i have struggled for 23yrs for reasons why he left but after finding this i thought he admits what he did was wrong ,but finding it was a joke,i now think what my sister did was cruel,let me know what you think is she cruel or just being funny?----- heres the email------ just to give you a short brief about myself....... i'm a father of 3 (maybe 4), who, has never shown any responsibility towards my children. i'm writing this because i don't admit this freely. but now have decided to come clean and let everyone know what sought of a 'man' i am. one day i hope (?) that maybe my 3 daughters and possible son will forgive me somehow, although this is a very big request. i am 56 years old with no house to my name and nothing i can call my own. no children and grandchildren to surround me because of the cowardly things i have done to them. please forgive my actions because unfortunately i am of the male species and i have this problem where i can not keep my weapon of mass destruction to myself. maybe one day, in the near future, i will contact my offspring and explain myself and my actions as to why i could not be 'daddy' to them. although i do realise that they are better off without a no hoper like me. child support will never make up for the wrong that i have done. and sporatic emails, phone calls and cards (although these are not things i have done for a while) will never make up for what parental irresponsibilites i have committed. and also that maybe my children will all meet up one day and discuss how i have not only denied one of my daughters but deserted my other 2. thankfully my children have had very strong mothers that have moved on and created wonderful lives for these innocent beings. and that they have married upholding and great providing fathers that have given them all the love and support needed which unfortunately i was too small of a man to provide. yours sincerely, ? will leave blank to protect him