General Chat

Thank you so much I know many people have much worse happening but this is bad to me. Am going up to lancaster tomorrow and will chill out (and work) with my friends. I guarantee I will come back and be a different person. I am so grateful for all your love and kind thoughts, it means so much to a little (ok 22!) girl alone on her own. Love you all

Bec...take a look at my thread....'revenge is sweet'....hope it makes you smile x

Love and loyalty is never miniscule bec.....We have all been there n done that....but guess wot!...we'er still here and much happier for it...my promise to you is....you WILL get over this but you have a few days of sadness 1st...after that...life can only get better :o) x

I know Bendy But he was so good in the beginning (well no saint, he ended things after 4 months, slept with 2 girls - my best friend and his ex) but i took him back 18 months passed and it was fine, until now. i've been so silly. i really hate myself for this. he was too young for me and held me back so much but i loved him. i sound so naive but i juste wanted love. Sorry for encroaching on all your time, i reliase my problems are miniscule compared to so many but it hurts so much

Bec you are doing the right thing for you!

I'll ring my mum tomorrow. and i'll have xmas at hers (i did say i'd spend it at the old peoples home down the road to me but i need to be with my faimily) I know i sound so sad but i really thought we'd be together forever, i'm wrong

Bec...thats sounds like a brill idea hun.....but please phone your mum sometime soon.

I'm going to go to lancaster tomorrow supposed to be working at the pub tomorrow night (his brother and law is my boss) but am going to say I'm going. Am going to stay with friends and be away from him!!

lol bendy....you reading this bec?.....lol

Bec...for gods sake! this 17yo works at Tesco's!!!! how much do you think she earns per week?....lolololol...I'll bet she wont be able to afford to support him like you did...I just hope you dont take him back.....let you head rule...not your heart cos you have a long life ahead of you and you dont want to waste your life on a loser like him.

I know i'm only young but i never expected this he was unemploled for 9 months and I supported him then he gets a job and goes off with a girl he meets at work!

Bec please forget him - take a step towards your mum - she is waiting for you. your mum probably saw through him anyway!

How long were you an item?

I know I deserve better but i left my family for him ( stupid in retrospect) he was my life until 6 days ago

Bec...take stock......re read all the comments on here...think of that lad and what he has done to you....imagin a life with a two timing rat thats a trolly dolly at Tesco's and tells you lies and tell yourself that you deserve better.....cos you dooooooo...

I'm so sorry for being so self-pitying I dont have anyone to talk to apart from you You are literally my lifeline

Bec please get in touch with your mum. forget him. your mum will welcome you with open arms. Anne

Bec...Im a 55yo Mum that has had rows with my kids at one time n another....we are the best pals in all the world...your mum is to you also....trust us oldies...we DO know best and most of all...we love you.

I'm so silly Thnak you all for your support, it literally is all i have I just dont know what to do

Bec...I wont go to bed tonight till I know we have made you feel a little bt better.......stay on your PC...please!