General Chat

strump i hope you are soon well x

For Strump OOOOOO (hugs) Ben, I haven't read any of the comments that has been said but one thing I have learnt and have to keep reminding myself 'think before I speak (or write)' and it is something worth remembering. I also have been guilty of rushing a reply which I later regretted so it's a case of been there done that. John

Ben, I've sent an email to you directly.

Benjamin, you are doing fine. You've been very outspoken and I will admit that you have upset me - but I can see that you have done things to put this right. I do think an apology to Lindy would be a good idea though. I totally understand your feelings of worthlessness. Every time I get used to my past, something else comes out of the woodwork to spoil things. Some things I only just discovered last week. If you need help or someone to talk to, never be afraid to ask for help. It doesn't mean you're weak. I hope you continue to feel better about yourself.

mandy x

:))))))))))))))))))))) Big Grin!! xox Dear heaven!! I just realised that my big grin came in after Ben's message regarding his father!! I'm SO sorry Ben! There was no connection! I was grinning with delight at the disagreement being laid to rest. Very best wishes to you. x

You're right Mandy. He did a really bad thing and I wanted to kill myself, but I better not say what it was. Sometimes I dont know why I am speaking to him now. It could be that I am happier and can forget but not forgive. Mandy, dont go. Stay.

Ann As long as I get the 1851 London census CD I'll be laughing. Ben

Ben, even though I'm 40 and obviously old enough to be your mum, I have also recently had a great deal of personal stuff in my life involving my birth family. That's why we all need to be very careful because we just don't know what is going on in other people's lives and how easy it is to upset them.

And will you get all that you have asked for? Lucky fellow. Ann glos

I am 22. Born 2/07/1982 I have had bad things happen to me in my life that have made me feel worthless, ie my father was the main cause, even though we are now on speaking terms, that is probably why I lash out sometimes. I APOLOGISEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Oh that Gary Betts who slagged me off for no reason. He's probably in Timbuktu now. He's long gone. I just hoep they release the 1911, and if anyone wants a 1851 census CD lookups done, plus an image, just ask, or PM me after Xmas Day.

how old r u benjamin

happydays

good lad

That is the only way to curtail this arguing once and for all. Lets now look forward to Chrimbo. I have asked for a few genealogy books, even a few certs to be ordered, and the 1851 London census CD set. What a list hey?