General Chat

Hello I am back I've been to stay with some friends up North but now I'm back and preparing to go to work and face the ex- + new lady. Am still feeling incredibly down and can't stop crying. I'll be back on here later after work so hopefully they'll be someone around to chat to. Love becx

Hello Bec, hope you spent some nice relaxing time with your friends. Jan

Hiya Bec! Glad to see you back. You are not going to get over this overnight and it is normal to still feel a bit down! But carry on the way you have and you will soon feel more like normal! Hang on in there Bev

Thnak you ladies Just to say I worked at the pub tonight and he did come in. I was adult, mature and pleasant and it was ok. Obviously I'd be a lot harder if he brought HER in but ultimately people in that pub want to see ME and speak to ME so I will not be driven away! becx

Hello Debra. I'm doing a bit better. take each day as it comes but I'm getting there!

aw bec..sorry to hear of your troubles,it really is true when they say you'l av the last laugh!! my ex started cheating when i was pregnant(he worked as a bouncer)said he'd just fallen out of love with me but after we split finally when our son was 6months he moved her into a house he'd bought and became dad to her 4yr old....im happily married to someone new and have a son togther,and he's raising my older two as his own.after five yrs she has left him for someone else(hahahah)shows the grass isnt always greener!! i do actually feel sorry for him now but what goes round comes round,and to do it when your pregnant to start with is sooo wrong.ive had them in my face for the last five yrs mind.stay strong dear..dnt know your story but just wanted to say you can cope.best wishes cherie.x

Morning Bec, glad to see the update, keep trying to be strong, your'e a very brave girl.. one day at a time! :)

Hiya Bec, my little weepy-mate! It isn't going to be easy for you hun, but you WILL get there. A little story might help ... my old schoolfriend was 40 this year and a couple of months beforehand, her long term partner (7 years) decided he just didn't want to be with her any more. She was devastated, particularly as there had been no warning signs. Because she was hitting 40 at the same time, she thought that was it - she'd never be happy again. But .... are you listening here Bec? ..... 6 months down the line, she is having a life again!! She has a lovely new apartment, made friends with someone new at work, and the pair of them are out partying like there's no tomorrow, and meeting new men every week LOL!! She said that she never thought she'd have this much fun again. So listen up hun - make good use of your friends, and you know we're always here - and you will be ok. Sending you great big hugs, Mandy :) xxxx

Course we'll be here Bec, don't be down. Lets talk later! Jo X

Hi sweetie...sorry i didnt pick up my phone last night, was asleep...hun im here for you, we will talk later. love and huggles xxxx