General Chat

I don't think so Bev,but she probably guessed. Good Luck Bec-actually pet all of the advice you are getting is much better to take notice of than me.It leaves you with dignity,Good Luck Love-Be Happy Hugs Rose

Bec, sorry you are hurting, as the others advise, you are best not doing anything just be nice and friendly especially to the girl she is just a kid. Heard of a good revenge story though, bloke took his new girl away for two weeks somewhere nice and asked ex( who had taken it all sooo well about the break up) to feed the cat, ex got in to his flat, sprinked a pack of cress seed everywhere lightly misted the seeds with water and turned the heating up full and before she left with the cat called the speaking clock in NEW YORK and left the phone off the hook, cresss grows very quickly imagine his carpets and soft furnishings, like a lovely lawn when he got home Kathleen

like everybody said just play it cool and soon you'll realise that you aren't acting, it really doesn't matter! you sound like a strong enough person to deal with this and talking and laughing about it are good ways to get over it. heard a story of a woman dumped by her hubby for someone younger, when she went to collect her things from the house he'd moved his new girlfriend in. she put fresh prawns into the hollow curtain rail and left them to rot! many weeks later she learnt from a mutual friend that her ex had had the house fumigated and was living in a hotel room because the smell (that they couldn't find) was overpowering!

aS i HAVE SAID BEFORE.... Revenge is a dish best served cold!! calm down before you do anything at all!! The fact he is telling what he is texting her is PATHETIC and Bec you need a man not a child!!

Thank you everyone I'm feeling calmer today. In fact I had a dream that involved him and it's made me see things differently. Sod him! Everyone who has met or seen the new girl has said that she's nothing on me. She dotes on him and worships him which I never did (he wasn't worthy of it!). Now all I need to do is get through tomorrow night!! becx

HI as another wife dumped for a younger model, rise above it show that you are a better person than him, also sometime along the way forgivce him, it deals with the anger effectively, I actually sent my ex a card when I was ready which apologised if I had caused any problem and then forgave him for hurting me, he couldn't cope with it Linda P

Look stunning, smile sweetly and wish her luck!! :O) Don't forget to add that if he strayed whilst with the best, he definitely will when dating then rest!!

Thank you again everyone I will look so good he won't recognise me! I've already lost about 5lbs this week (worry, stress etc) and was complimented on how nice I looked and how much weight I've lost last night! Am getting new glasses next week. Have booked an appointment for a hair cut. When I've lost some weight am going to go and buy some new clothes! becx

That's the spirit girl - keep it up and just show him! Kxx