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I am sooo tempted to reap revenge on my ex-. He really has done it tonight! BUT, I'm going to be be adult and calm. Any funny stories/ideas about revenge? becx

That's what I said in my other thread what I'll do. That was until I saw him tonight and now I'm soooo wound up! He asked when would be a good time to introduce the two of us! lol

Ask her if she likes sloopy seconds Ha! ha! not really just look good and let him see what he is missing Debs.

I intend to! "hell hath no fury like a woman scorned" I want to hurt him. I really do. But the best way to hurt him is not to hurt him! Then he'll be so busy being introspective and looking at himself, that's the real punishment!

Bec, Like I said earlier, getting revenge is tacky and just makes you look like the bitter and twisted ex. Plus, it shows you're still thinking and obsessing over him. Nothing will get through to him more than you getting on with your life and getting a new fella. He'll hate to see that Having said that.......... You could always refuse to serve her alcohol. After all, she is 17! Tell her you shop at Marks and Spencer now, and not just for food, because EVERYTHING is much better quality! Crista

My revenge was.......ex married my cousin....they had a wonderful marriage full of arguments :o) plus two more kids.... then divorced...I eventually met him at OUR daughters house 30 years later...he said...wow! you've aged good!...(he was sitting beside our son)...I said....HUH! last time I saw you you looked like that!....pmsl Gerri ;o)

Hiya Deb] Not sure if you saw the update on my other thread but I'm FURIOUS!!! Bloody !"$£%£"! But I'll be calm. I'm winning already. He sat there rubbing his new love in my face... well I'll be rubbing my new happiness in his face shortly!

About 4 weeks after my hubby left I found a bottle of Vintage scotch that he had kept for about 8 years so I invited the girls round for a drink we had a great laugh and we were all sick as dogs it took me a day to get the cold tea the right colour to fill it up had great pleasure giving it to him when he ask me for it PMSL. Debs.

Brilliant Debs! I served him a few drinks tonight and was so tempted to spit in them but that would do him no damage.

Thanks Debra! Feel so confused. Am still in shock. Am upset. Am angry. Am happy. It's so much to take in...

Right Bec if the claws are out why don't you ask him why he wants a bike when he had a Rolls Royce LOL Debs.

Kayleen don't you think women can be really mean if they want we no all the bad words LOL it is a shame we can't really say what we would like to say but the swearing might get out of hand LOL Debs.

and while you are at it use his tooth brush with a bit of tooth paste on it to clean the plug hole it is great it makes it shine LOL Debs.

Poor dog :o(

Poor You Bec - I feel for you, you must be on a rollercoaster of emotion at the mo! This guy sounds downright bl**dy insensitive and I reckon you are better off without him if he can do this to you after the time you were together. I'm so angry for you!! Best way to hurt him is to act like it doesn't bother you - it's hard work, but you gotta look like you're having fun and aint interested in him anymore. Turn up with a male friend that he doesnt know as well, dont go over the top, just be seen to have male company - ALWAYS look your best too!! Try and rise above him - he doesn't deserve for you to waste time, energy and tears on him! It's gonna be a hard time for you just now, so make sure you got lots of 'good' people around you to keeps your spirits high. Good luck - ((((HUGS))))

get some tickets printed up with his name and number on and advertise them in the phone boxes around your area to state that if anyone wants a good time with him.then please phone this number.done it to my ex.what a laugh!!!xxxxx(:

Bec Just read your update on the other thread! Seems to me you are winding him up more! Why else does he feel the need to inform you all of what texts he is sending her!! Go ahead, make arrangements to meet her, be polite and I guarantee he will be wondering what the heck is going on with you.....Lets face it he will be expecting you to be heartbroken, what a shock to his ego to discover you are not! Dont look for revenge because that will bring you down to his level. (no matter how tempting). Carry on as you are doing, you will be getting to him more. Bev

Bec,I suppose it is confession time. When I was inmy twenties I had a really close friend and she had a dreadful time with a very abusive husband.I was always there for her for years,even at 2am when she had been thrown out by him with no clothes.After some years, and we were still good friends and saw each other regularly, I met her in the supermarket and her manner was very evasive.She could not meet me in the eye.At that time my then husband was having yet another affair and yes you have guessed it,it was with her.When I found out,I was devastated,she knew what I has been through with him and had always been there for me before.Now,the one person who I thought I could trust above all others had betrayed me. I went through the usual period of grief and anguish and was on anti- depressants for weeks then one day I snapped out of it. I went out and bought a pack of blank post cards,a stencil and set to work making cards advertising her services as a massuer,giving French lessons etc etc.Thes I distributed in hallways of blocks of flats,on notice boards ,and telephone booths all over the city. Revenge was sweet. Maybe I should not have done it but I was only young and very hurt, Confession time over-Rose

Carry on like nothing has happened,,,be nice to the kid he has picked up and laugh a lot,,,get some new lippy and act like nothing he has said really matters..Its just polite conversation with a turkey..

Rose that was brilliant!! Could you have pictured her face when she got the phone calls....Did she ever find out it was you