General Chat

BEC !! Stop getting confused babes what you like!! You know what i said on the phone...YOU GOTTA GRAB EVERY CHANCE YOU GET TO BE HAPPY! Go for it hun...you need to have some fun...and you sounded so happy on the phone sweetie you lifted me!! Do whatever makes you happy Bec...-x-x-x-

bec, there may be a mr right coming along sometime but theres nothing wrong about a mr right now, just be careful !!

Thank you Brian (i) It's good to get a male perspective. I'd never get into anything without thinking about everything. This is just all so sudden. Think I'm struggling to remember what it's like being single again. becx

The whole thing is crazy I thought I was on the shelf and suddenly men want me... It's insane... I dont want anyone and I'd never settle for that I now have guys who I've always thought are great and who'd never look at me, telling me that they kept away because of the ex and now they want me... Men are like bloody buses!

Bec, Take your time to find the right man. Look at all the men who passed you by because of the ex. If you rush into another relationship with someone for the sake of not being alone, you could be off the market when that special someone comes along. It's like shopping. You don't buy the first dress you see, you shop around for the best option. Crista

Thanks Crista I'd never get with someone to upset him (I'm not that pathetic even if he is!) I just feel so disorientated... I've literally gone from thinking noone would ever want me to.... wow... men want me... becx

I now know that i don't need a man to make me happy. I also know I don't want to and don't like being alone. I enjoy being in a relationship. If the ex- got with his girlfriend within the week then i see no reason why if I meet the right man I shouldn't do the same? Is this wrong? becx

Bec, What advice are you looking for? I think you need to let your emotions calm down a bit before you embark upon another relationship. Find yourself first without having a guy for a prop. Crista

Little kb.... yes I am! And I will ;-) xx

Crista - I could fall for someone else tomorrow, just feel wary It's just so strange, I thought NOONE wanted me and suddenly it seems like people do.... Don't know what to think... becx

Bec, If you're confused then the best thing to do is nothing. You'll know when you're ready to start dating again and it sounds like you aren't just yet. Crista

Thank you Just feel really untrusting and sooooo confused!!! These are guys that I never thought would look at me twice and suddenly they're saying they've like me for ages.... Could really do with some input with the men on here....

The world is your oyster Bec HAPPY CHRISTMAS Debs.

This will sound trivial and stupid to many but I could do with some help and you lot have been great in the past... I've been single for 2 weeks and suddenly all sorts of guys have crept out of the woodwork Friends of mine suddely are confessing they've liked me for ages but did nothing because of the boyf! I'm not a vulnerable person but I am feeling very confused... becx