General Chat

tonight... Am feeling all sorts of things. Worry, nerves, anger (the ex-won't stop going on about it!! 3 weeks ago we were together and now he has a new girlfriend... How do I react? I've already said I'll be very pleasant but I'll be behind the bar and if they sit and cuddle and kiss in front of me I don't know what I'll do. Any ideas? Love becx :-~

be as nice as you can honey...but if it really gets to you badly, just turn round to her and say, well at least he is here tonight with you and not sitting in bushes watching me again like he was the other night! lol xxx

Hold your head up high and be as friendly as can be - show him that it doesn't bother you at all (only on the inside and he cant see that). That will put a dent in his ego and probably give her the willies as she'll be expecting you to be horrible - wont know how to handle it! Keep your dignity and dont go down to his level (sewer level!) All the best, take care. Love Kxx

Thanks ladies Just wish I could get it over and done with! He asked whether my 'new man' would be there. I said I was keeping my relationship private. he didn't like that lol

bec, if you are going to be working behind the bar why dont you invest in some prune juice and give them a complimentary cocktail or two ?

bec try not to drink too much as she might be waking up with a black eye!lol.xxxxxxx(:

Thanks for your support guys... Apparently she's nervous and EMBARRASSED about meeting me... If I was her I'd be more embarrassed about the state of my new boyfriend... :-) Becx

How did it go? then,

he probably lies to her about you, its not her fault i suppose that hes a prat look at it that way bec, hope your new guy is ten times better than him, let the sad ex be an idiot and hell get it back, as said earlier wot goes around, your not accident prone are you, maybe accidently slip the glass of drink out of your hand as your serving it to him, or clear the tables and knock the ashtray over his lap. you show your happier without him bec

The prune juice cocktail sounds like a bloody wonderful idea! Add a couple of those little chocolate laxatives as a garnish.

Oh Edward thats awful! Fanct telling Becs to do that...where can I get some from?? (sshhh)

In a supermarket or a chemist's. They are fairly readily available Down Under, so presume the same in the UK!

So how did it go then Bec?..Did you keep smiling and being charming?

see Bec's other thread........