General Chat

Thanks for the advice Glenys I'll be ok, it's just hard to keep it in. They'll be out tonight and she is staying at his (for the first time!) so they'll both be drunk and all over each other.... tough but i can handle it!! becx

Bec, he wants a reaction from you. Don't play into his hands, although I know it's easy for me to say. Treat it with the contempt it deserves, and keep your dignity. Just think - he's done it to you, he could very well do it to his new lady in time. Best wishes, Glenys x

You're all soooo lovely and funny and wise...and generally great! Becx

Babe i keep tellin ya what to do!!! Poke him in the EYE!!!! xxxx

Bec,Why not pop down to the Chemists and buy some "Bromide" make sure he gets it in every drink,and the "Brewers Droop"will be a reality, and performance related would be "A Comedy of Errors". Have a nice Christmas. Hal.

You are doing fantastic Bec, you are so strong. Keep it up babe, you're definitely the winner here. What a pathetic weed to have to show off in front of you! Love and big hugs, Mandy xx

Bec, when my ex-hubby left me i was devastated (espesially when he flaunted his new bit of skirt under my nose). After a couple of weeks I wanted revenge so I got dressed up, went out to a club that I knew he would be in with his footie mates and I pulled the most georgeous bloke in the place and even took him home with me (which I wouldnt always recommend). Ex-hubbies face was a picture, he never p*ssed me off again and he even asked to come back. But once I realised I had found the power of seduction again there was no way he was coming home, I was having way too much fun. Both re-married and a little more grown up now, we talk every few weeks and are glad we went through what we did as it has made us both stronger now.

Becs, if he's parading her like that then he has no respect for himself, let alone you or her!! Just feel sorry for the poor girl.... she'll find out soon enough what a waste of space he is!! :O)

Thanks Gerri! On the plus side, i'm going to spend christmas at my mum's (who I haven't spoken to for 6 months because she disapproved of the ex) so it looks like I'm a very lucky girl! I just wish I could tell him to &^*% off, thought being fine with him and the new girl would be enough but he's still shoving it in my face... On the plus side, his parents are still giving me a present and I wasn't going to reciprocate (didn't want to make things awkard with the new girlf) but today I thought SOD IT! So i've ordered some flowers to be delivered to them saying 'Just a little something to say Merry Christmas and thank you for all your love and support over the last 2 years" lol

Always here for you Bec. If not on the boards then you know how to mail me/us.....This is a rotton time of year to feel alone....but with this lovely lot here...you dont have to feel that. I got into the internet by my grandaughter showing me 8years ago..and have since made loads of new friends. Met my partner on this screen thingy too.(still cant work out how the video works tho lol) It's a place when you feel at your lowest you can always find someone to talk to...even through the night. The nights can be the worst time...Chin up m8y!...TODAY IS THE FIRST DAY OF THE REST OF YOUR LIFE. Gerri

I'd like to take this opportunity to thank everyone who has helped me with his... I'm not lying, without you lot I would have reacted TOTALLY different! And I would also like to give myself a quick pat on the back. I've been so good and I'm extremely pleased with myself, I've reached depths I didn't know I had and you have all taught me the patience and grace I needed to cope with this. Thank you for making me an adult! becx

In the last few days alone I've had many male customers compliment me on my new found confidence. and looks.. I'm happier and there are other men but none of them have been waved in front of him... Annoys me because I even gave them a joint christmas card and they were still rubbing my face in it... Am going to get a rather lovely (male) friend of mine to come down for the weekend and show him off! Petty but damn well deserved! <angry> becx

oh Bec luv....walk away.....your worth more. Just pity the poor girl cos she doesnt know what you know about him.......YET!

Hi Bec... As my mum always said take a deep breath and say " there are more fish in the sea" better than the last.. You take care.. you'll be OK, it's nearly the New Year a new start. Love Pat xx

If you dress up Bec, they'll both know why you've done it. don't give him the satisfaction love.

Thanks Bryan! I would knee him in the nether regions but the (honest, not bitter) truth is that injured or not he's no good! Am soooo angry.... Everyone said to me "Bec how can you deal with him doing that?" The honest answer is... I don't know... deep breaths bec! becx

bec,the next time you know ,that your going to bump into them....dress up to kill!! ive seen your pic,believe me,your capable of making any mans mouth water!! its his loss!...stupid boy! bryan.

Easy one here for u Bec, Kick him in the knacks but do it calm and smiling....it's a wonderful release! and he'll be in no state to slavver over her for a while either. or i can come and do it? lol

well i'd tell her he ain't no good at it,plus boot him where he hurts.he won't be any good at it then clare

Have been so good but tonight the ex- (of three weeks!) was practically having sex with the new girlfriend in front of me... I coped but am not sure how much I can take... Any tips?