General Chat

I know it's really weird but when I first started seeing my hubby, I didn't feel anything really, Ive told him so too lol lol Bless no seriously love is something you build on and over time even though I thought I loved him, I didn't really no for sure until we had been together for a long time. See you can have an attraction to someone, and it feels a bit similar to that. But if you still feel like that years later then that is love. Nicola xx

Nicola Soppy? No.. yes... whatever... it feels great dont it?? Maz x ;0)

Awwww When did you first get the flutterings of love? The butterflys? Becx

Bec I seriously cant remember! of course at first it was lust as it normally is, you fancy some-one, then the lust sets in!! Then sex is no longer important, nice, good, wonderful!! but not important, the person themselves replace that importance, and you suddenly feel that wonderful feeling of being "in love". I can honestly say that I still feel that way, I love Dave, but I am also still "in love" with him.... Maz x

Theres one other thing that I forgot to mention, to really know when you are in love, you would have to been with someone for quite a while and build on it. If you still feel like that in years to come, then I believe that is love lol Soppy mo aren't I lol Nicola xx

Hi Bec I don't know, it just happens, It's hard to explain. lol When you think of what it would be like with someone else and you can't bare the thought of being with anyone else...........When you think of the person that you are with and feel happy with that person........When you enjoy each others company..............When you share everything........If you can get through the most difficult times and still be together and happy........You get a fluttery feeling in you belly everytime you think of that person............Then surely that is love. I have been with my husband for 13 year's and what I've said is how I feel. So to me that is what love feels like. Nicola xxx

k.b I forgot to add that, yes we are best friends too and hold the utmost respect for each other!! Maz x ;0)

What about in the first place? When did you first think "I love you"? love becx

I dont really know? I just knew that when Dave was not around, I missed him, when he was around, I felt safe, and comfortable... And whats more I still do, been married for 15 years to-day! together for 23 years and it still feels perfect!! I laugh when he laughs, cry when he cries and hurt when he hurts! I think you just know when it happens! Maz x

lol Was just wondering.... have never 'fallen' in love before. Just quite liked them and realised one day I loved them. becx

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