General Chat

Stupid I know but I am terrified of not being here anymore especially as I get older

Couldn’t imagine losing my hubby but when he was struggling he seemed to accept he was going .

We would talk when he was able and he would say I couldn’t cope if you weren’t here but you are strong and know how to do things so I know you will be ok

It was a fight when he was ill to get him home which was what he wanted and i thinkas a family we helped him on his last journey

In the meantime I am now conscious of being an old girl and often think how long do I have left

I have a daughter and grandkids and grt grandkids who love me and have been very concerned about Covid and me being safe

But the fright is still there on when and how will I pop my clogs!

Am I being too over thinking and should just enjoy each day

Probably being a bit maudlin and depressed

I often think why am I here and how long before i pop my clogs


I do have family who have been very anxious of my health in the current problems,and who were so supportive with hubby died but they have their own families now to look out for

‘Anxiety State, Neurosis, Depression or Psychosis’. - a fairy common exclusion clause for Health Insurance cover.

Not much help - am I?

Probably not.

Don't worry be happy enjoy your life .we al get fed up & wonder what's going to happen enjoy your family & friends company. it's bad enough with Covid 19 positive thoughts are the only way we will get through :-D Barbara :-D

That’s very true Barbara I


I think lock down and being lonely and missing hubby is getting to me

:-(

Try not to worry my Dear mum passed away 1982 age 62.I was in my 30s I got to 62 & thought would I pass it here I am 74 just last week so it doesn't do really to be sad frightened it's given me a goal in life to keep going & try & enjoy my life Take care Shirley <3 Barbara

Thank you Barbara

It’s my family who keep me going that’s for sure

I have great grandkids who are a delight and call me big nan

I did query one time was it because am a bit on the larger size and was told Noooooo it’s because of your place in the family , that’s ok then !

I knew all of them care and worry about nan so it’s lovely to know they genuinely care
:-D

Got the nadgers haven't you?

Bear with it. They will pass.

Sharron

That made me laugh

Thank you

:-D :-D

I think we all get those occasionally zsharron. :-D

I think we all get those occasionally zsharron. :-D

Double nadgers for the lady in Gloucester!

I usually worry about that at about four o'clock in the morning. It's always worse in the dark and not as bad when the day comes.

Annie