General Chat

Love you Son, and I know tomorrow will be a mix of happy and sad, it is, after all the 18th. Your brothers birthday, your sister in law or is it aunt in laws birthday, 18th of each and every month reminds me of you going, and bless Grans memory, so as I said tomorrow a mixture of happy and Sad, love you special Son, so much I wanted to say, but ......

special nudge xx

saturday morning nudge xx

Saturday afternoon nudge.

This is a sad day for me also Stephen, the annivesary of my Brother's passing, if you meet him give him my love. xx

special nudgexx

Love you XX so much more to say ut..............

Sunday evening nudge to the top XX

Night Son XX..

From R to her Mum P. love you and miss you Mum XX..

Good night, God bless

Maria xxx

Not another! A fit and healthy teenager died suddenly after waking up in the early hours struggling for breath and with pains in her chest. At just 18 Helen Penfold is just the latest victim of sudden adult death...and for that reason and for Stephen and all those others whose deaths could have possibly been prevented by screening we must press on with a demand for the Government of whatever party to act to stop more needless deaths

goodnight nudgexx

Monday evening nudge for Stephen and for Staffordshire Col's thread.

A Tuesday evening nudge to a very important thread and for very special people

Early evening nudge to the top

Letter from Heaven


To my dearest family some things I'd like to say
But first of all to let you know that I arrived today,
I'm writing this from Heaven. Here I shall dwell with God above
Here, there's no more tears of sadness. Here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight
Remember that I am with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through
God picked me up and hugged me and He said "I welcome you,
It's good to have you back again,
you were missed while you were gone,
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly, you are part of my plan
There's so much that we have to do to help our mortal man."
God gave me a fist of things that he wished for me to do
And foremost on the list was to watch and care for you
And when you lie in bed at night, the days chores put to flight
God and I are closest to you . . in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth and all those loving years
Because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears
But do not be afraid to cry, it does relieve the pain
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
1 wish that I could tell you all that God has planned
If I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand
But one thing is for certain though my life on earth is o'er
I'm closer to you now than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb
But together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
When you're walking down the street and you've got me on your mind
I'm walking in your footsteps, only half a step behind
And when it's time for you to go . . from that body to be free
Remember you're not going . . you're just coming here to me.


My cousin died 10yrs ago and this helped his mum, my aunt, immensley!!

It took quite a while for her to accept what had happened but after reading this she slowly began to realise that she had to move on with her life and by holding on to Russ she wasnt letting him move on! She had to realise that although she could no longer see him... he was and would always be by her side!! My aunt knows that when she makes that higher step that Russ will be there waiting for her with his arms open wide!!

Luv to you Gillian and your family

Bev xx

goodnight nudgexx

Thank you for that P.P. I think it will help many of us who have loved and lost.


Goodnight Stephen. XX

for Stephen xx

Goodnight Stephen XX