Genealogy Chat

Hello Everybody,
My mother, Diane, who,s roots we still cannot find died in 1952 of bowel cancer,she weighed 3st 7lb just before she died, an extremely sad sight, it is indeed a cruel desease.
To brighter things,how honoured we are to have had a visit from Robert, glad to know you are ok friend.
I had an e mail from Wayne, he is well and VERY busy, as always, he sends best wishes to everyone.
The weather is lovely here at the moment though we have had some rain which was much needed.
Reece as always my thoughts are with you.
Cynthia you always seem so busy but you also seem to get so much out of life and you are indeed the kind of friend we all want and need and I am delighted to have you as a friend.
Time now to have a quick tidy round and get ready to go out for lunch, such a hard life I know but someone has to do it.
Much love to you all
Evelyn X

Hi Everyone

Your words Frank are so very true,Bowel Cancer is not a nice way to go.. I watched the OH"s Father who had also just retired die of Bowel Cancer and he lost so much weight at the end ....I intend to keep mine no matter what he has to go through.

Robert I am sorry you did not enjoy London,it is OK for a short period of time.

I suppose England is starting to get cool now as your Winter is getting closer.
The last time we came we came in Oct and left in Nov ,I would love to bring my Aussie OH back around Christmas so he can have a white Christmas but there is no garantee it will snow for us .
He has never seen snow,how sad is that.

I spent yesterday getting my books up together for the Tax man ,I am very late this year.
I am still waiting to see my opthomoligist re my eyes ,21st Sept I see him ,they think I have glowcoma as the presure in my eyes is way to high,that would explain the way my sight has gone down.

I should be very thankfull that I am in good health and I do have a good life,I think of Reece and what she must be going through.

It is very strange how we all have a veiw on what we all look like but have never met one another,we are indeed very blessed.

60th on Monday so whatever day everyone wants to have a group party I will be there.

Better get some work done,have a lovely day everyone.
Suex

I agree Frank....unimaginable. I nearly lost my OH to heart trouble back in the 80's when we had been married for about 16 years and yet here we still are and into our 43rd year. I feel truly blessed and am grateful for each day together.



Anne, Anne, you are working far too hard, just be careful and look after yourself.



I expect Sylvia will be back next week....hope she has had a good rest and enjoyed herself. No doubt she has found a coffee shop somewhere!


Meanwhile, Shaun the Sheep is enjoying his jaunts in the car with me. He's good company when I am driving on my own............poor sad thing that I am......sigh



Off to see what is happening on the boards. Oh yes....really pleased......a new series of New Tricks starts tomorrow night and it's one of my favourite programmes...Yipee.......


Night all. Cx

How lovely to hear from Reece

Its so hard when you lose someone very close - I still have days when I think - Mum would have loved that etc & feel so silly - i lost her over 18 years ago now.

Very manic at work & i am doing a 6 day week - stupid or what.

Get up etc - go to work Manic manic - go home eat fall asleep - go to be bed wake up early (as slept during the evening) get up and so on

Add in row with hubby as he thinks i am snappy at the moment !!!!!!!!!!

Nice to see you Robert - hope the shell was ok while you were away.

Cynthia you don't look old enough for Great grand kiddies

Susan - was eating lunch - not a lot put me off - Hope everything goes well & you get the results soon.

Frank very thought provoking - I agree whole hartedly.

I have had to start a TO DO List now - unheard off - just couldn't keep flipping through 6 or 7 pages of work & looking for the bits without ticks on.

Too many things with nothing against them

have to rush - take care all

"it is all part of life and I still have him around"

That says it all since whatever we have to go through, it is worth it when it brings those sort of results.

My own father-in-law had just retired when he too was taken by Bowel Cancer which is devastating.

Our thoughts really are with Reece as she comes to terms with her new life ahead.
We spend our lives growing up, get married then if we are blessed we bring up the children and see them off into the world.
All the time with the same person by your side and the thought of such a loss is quite unimaginable.

Take care out there......

Hi Everyone

Cynthia it was nice to hear from Reece again and thinkyou for passing that on to all of us I do hope she is OK, it sounded like a really lovely memorial service she had for her beloved Peter,my heart really goes out to her.
Reece you are in my thoughts .

My OH had his Colonostopy yesterday,A few large pollops cut out sent away for testing so he is sore today, men are not very good patients to look after.

His father and Grandmother both died of Bowel Cancer so it is a thing he has done every three years .
The day before ,we call his prep day when he can't eat anything but strained chicken soup and Bonox drinks and he has to take a yucky drink to clean himself out(sorry if anyone is having Breakfast) but it is all part of life and I still have him around ,we try to look after one another it will be my turn in about 6 mths.

The eathquakes in New Zealand are terrible so much damage I feel for all of you over there Josie.

I am out shopping today but will try to pop in later tonight.

Suex

Oh Robert, and I was so hoping that you would have a lovely time. Never mind, you are back in your little shell and happy again.

I have received the following message from Reece.....

Dear Cynthia and friends on Sue's thread,

I cannot thank you and friends enough for all your kind thoughts and prayers in my time of sorrow for my dear husband. Yes, they are indeed a comfort to me.

Although I have had the most wonderful support I am finding it extremely hard to bear because I miss his loving company all the time. No doubt, in the future, I shall be able come to terms with widowhood.

We held a beautiful memorial and celebration of his life in a woodland setting last Thursday afternoon with some pieces of his favourite music and old friends and colleagues speaking of their friendships with Peter. Everyone thought it very fitting and a perfect way to remember him. On Friday, in the last of three ceremonies, Simon, Miles and I are going to place his ashes in a Memorial garden with a plaque to commemorate his life.

Say "Hello" to everyone for me, please Cynthia, and my love and warmest thanks to you all.

Reece




We have had a day of sunshine and showers today and even some thunder and lightning with torrential rain. My grandma always used to like heavy rain as she reckoned it 'washed the pavements'......I think she has a point.


Back on the school run...........how time flies.

Off to celebrate my gt.grandson's 2nd birthday tonight....it's his brother's 1st birthday next Monday!

Love to all. Cx.

Back in shell.

London - Yucky!!!!!

Good luck Cynthia - it does work sometimes - and yes I do know who is in charge in this house - he is very sleek & trim - has a very cute siamese style face, is very cute & cuddly & very warm in winter when he sits on my lap. He has White & Black fur & gives me kisses. He only has to look at me & I give in.

Hope Josie is ok & no aftershocks

Radio Alarm work me this morning to "Just another Manic Monday"

I think it was an omen - we didn't stop all day & tomorrow & Wednesday are going to be worse, as we have loads out of the office on a training course.

Oh well - time to get the dinner on ready for OH's return to the fold.

Wonderful to hear the party & visit with your dad went well Susan.

I had a little ring box given to me by a favourite uncle when I was 7 - it really was far too small & the feet kept falling off & last year the hinges went for the 3rd time. For my 50th last year I treated myself to a new one in Madeira, with a mirror this time. John had to get rid of the old one as I couldn't.

I am so silly sometimes as if it would have hurt my uncles feelings - he has long left this side & crossed over he wouldn't worry about an old jewel box.

Take care all - will try & pop in tomorrow.

Sounds as if you had a great time Sue.....so glad and I'm sure it was all worth it.

Hope Robert is having a good time in London and finds time for some sightseeing.


Went shopping for some new pans this morning and could have spent a fortune.....so many wonderful things to look at in home furnishing etc. I have put the idea into OH's mind that we may need new curtains............will let it sink in and then bring up the topic again. Hopefully, he may think it was his idea in the first place!! Womanly wiles.



Better get some messaging done. Love to all.

Hi Everyone

What a weekend !! Full on .

My Dad got here on Friday so I took him shopping for my Birthday Pressy ,He bought me a new jewellery box ,the last one he bought me was for my 21st and it is a bit small now and a bit old I might add seeing as I will be 60 this birthday.

Saturday was Mother in Laws 90th birthday ,that went really well...alot of people, we had a large room at the Hotel enough to fit 100 people ,they decked it out beautifull.

Sunday Dad wanted to go out in our Son in Laws boat to get some crabs as there are a lot out in the bay at present .

Dad left to go home about 4pm Sunday so last night we had both had enough and were really tired ,in bed by 10pm.

Josie I have followed the Christchurch Earthquacks,I did not realise Wellington had so many quacks as well .
So much damage,it must be heartbreaking for all those people to loose ther homes and so many hearitage buildings damaged that cannot be replace ,it is a great lose of history.

Nice to hear from you Evelyn and Robert have a nice trip to London Robert It is a nice city for Tourist;s but would not want to live there.
I hope life can get back to normal if only for a few days .
Check in Later.
Suex

So glad you're okay Josie but the structural damage sounds unpleasant. Happy Father's Day to those dads in NZ.


Hope your meeting is worthwhile Robert and that you enjoy your time out of your shell.


Yes, Autumn is on it's way Anne.....it's my least favourite season but ........I have to get on with it! Sounds like you're having fun with that there pussycat! Just wondering who's in charge???? lol


Had a busy day so just browsing around. Good wishes to all.

Happy Fathers Day to NZ

Glad all is well Josie - I too thought of you but knew you were up North a bit - Didn't realise NZ has so many mini earthquakes - just listening to the news on the TV.

Our semi adopted moggie is so much better - No after effects thank goodness - he is pearched half on the desk half on the windowsill looking out the window - he really wants to be out in the garden - but we are having one of those short sharp showers. He hates the rain - opened the window & he sits out on the ledge under the window - he gets the air & keeps dry - I sufffer the cold (as its quite chilli this morning - Autumn is on its way. Pursuaded him to get back in now - so he is trying to sit on my keyboard to stop me making a fuss of it instead of him. Its quite funny - my OH has been out with the polish again & done all the windowsill - so they are slippery for the cats - he keeps trying to wash & his paw keeps slipping, hence the move to the desk as its more secure.

Lovely to see you Robert - have a good time in London - hope your shell is nice & secure while you are away.

Have you had a fantastic time at the party Sue.

Will try & pop back in later - so far so good - phone line now back working.

Take care all

Hi Everyone,

Hope your trip to London will be a pleasant one Robert.

Thank you for your concern Evelyn
As I thought the Media has obviously blown the looting incident way out of proportion, Some opportunists threw a few bricks through a shop window but they were nabbed before they could steal anything. And police where fully in control following that incident.

There have been continuous smaller after shocks and high winds predicted for tonight pose a continuing danger, While the epicenter of the quake was in a rural area which sustained damage the worst damage was in the city center 30k ms away. With a number of city blocks collapsing, mainly 2 storied brick buildings.
Wending it's way through the City is the river Avon in places the river bed has lifted and there is flooding in some parts.
One of the inner city Petrol Stations has had it's underground Fuel storage tanks pushed fully up on to what remains of the forecourt the same thing has happened to a couple of in ground concrete swimming pools.
Just about every Road in the entire region has been damaged with lots of large open cracks and great humps.
Power and water have now been restored to 90% but many houses are considered to dangerous to live in and there have been fires spontaneously starting in some buildings even a day after the quake.
There is a state of civil emergency and the inner city has been cordoned off and a curfew is in place. No public buildings will be open until wed allowing for full assessment of there safety, this includes schools.
The full extent of the massive amount of structural damage and damage to the cities infra structure will be not apparent for a number of days yet.

The good thing is there were no deaths and only 2 serious injuries.

Well must go as my Daughter has just arrived as it is Father's Day here in NZ.
Take care catch you all later, Josie

Hello,

Off to London tomorrow for a Meeting in the City on Monday.

Josie I was so relieved to know that you are ok after the earthquake, I was very worried about you, hearing about the looters reminded me of when we were bombed in WW2, people used to loot our belongings which I thought was a dreadful thing to do as we had already suffered enough.
Its quite cold here at the moment although the sun is shining and I expect it will warm up later.
Ron is having a nap in front of the telly,I will have to wake him up soon as we are going out for lunch and he has to have a shower first.
I often think of Reece and hope she is coping lets hope she will pop in soon.
Its a long time since we have heard from dear Wayne, I must send him an e mail and check if he is ok, I will let you know if I receive a reply.
Time for me to prepare for going out so cheerio for now,love to you all
EvelynX

Hi Josie, I thought of you as soon as I heard the news about the earthquake. Very glad you are okay and that it isn't as bad as the media are making out. Seems there was also a bad plane crash in NZ too from what I heard on the news. Very strange that the two events happened at similar times.


Oh Sue, you are going to be sooo tired but I hope you also have a wonderful time. Remember to take plenty of photos and catch up on old times.


I have the excitement of getting our quilt cleaned today. Cor, I don't half live life to the full don't I.....lol? Just going down to collect the one from my daughter's flat so they can be taken together.


We've had some beautiful days here......so must take advantage of the sunshine and get plenty of washing done.


~~~~~~~~~waves to Frank and Robert. Do keep us updated with news of your grandchildren Frank, and Robert, just pop your head out and say hallo soon.


Cx

Hi Everyone

I would love a cuppa Josie,we did hear about the quake and the looters going at it .

How could anyone do that when people are not there to look after there own houses.

We are just starting to get ready for the Mother In laws Party,it starts at 12 luch time until 3 Pm but I think it may go longer seeing as there are family members who have not seen one another for years ,I am starting to look for ward to it now should be a good day.

I had better get ready ,see you all tonight,stay safe Josie.
Suex

Hi Everyone,
I thought I bet a let you know that I am still standing, following the 7.1 Earthquake that hit Christchurch. While my cat jumped on me about the time it hit 4.30am I did not feel a thing, though it was felt through most of New Zealand.

The media tend to exaggerate things so while the quake was shallow and there has been a lot of structural damage no one was killed and there where only 2 serious injuries.

There is currently no power and water in the city or telephones and limited cell contact, the airport is closed because of damage to the runway and all rail lines in the South Island of New Zealand have been closed.

Christchurch has a nearby seaport called Lyttleton Where most of the Immigrant ships from England brought the early settlers in the late 1800's
There were initial fears of a Tsunami but because of the shallowness of the Quake, there is no threat.

Meanwhile here in Wellington the sun is shinning but it is very cold after we experience a polar blast yesterday evening that brought thunder and lightening and hail storms not to mention the rain and the wind.
And snow down to 400 meters above sea level,
here in the suburb of Johnsonville where I live we are about 200 meters above sea level.

Time for another cup tea....... anyone want one?
Catch you all later Josie.

I am also thinking of Reece a lot - do hope all is well - we all miss her

Not sure if I will be able to pop in over the weekend as our home phone line is still down - not a peep out of it - BT said it would be fixed by 17)) on the 2nd - no chance. So don't think I will have internet access - Joy

Lovely & sunny today - absolutly manic here today - everyone seems to be back off holiday.

I have stupidly agreed to do overtime next Saturday - well need the extra pennies for our week away - so going to be really stressed out at the end of next week - Sunday off then 3 days of work.

Must go Phones are a calling me

Take care all