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Hoping that someone may be able to shed some light on my what appears to be my non born family Despite numerous tries to get Birth certificates and such i keep getting the no sorry we do not have records for those people and i getting really close to tears ......lol Just hoping that someone may be able to read this and offer advice Trying to find Barnes Family from St Helens Thomas BARNES was born in 1879.Died 28.10.1944 aged 65 Married a Sabina ?? born in 1884 Died 4.11.1938 aged 54 Both the above are burried in St Helens Cemetary They had 9 or 10 children 1)Annie who married a Daniel HUGHES.They had 4 children a) Vera married a Jack LUCAS.They had 3 children Paul.Colin.Elaine b) Philomena married Johnny c) Linda last known living in Southport d) Denis 2) Rita who married a Kenneth CHARLSON Lived in Willow Road (back of saints ground) 3) Mary never married or had children 4)Thomas married ? Had 2 children Gerald and Jimmy 5)Wilfred married ? .Had a pub near the cemetary 6)Charlie married ? Her family was originally pottery owners from Stoke on Trent .Charlie was last knew living in Southport 7)William (Billy) married Nell.They had 4 children Jackie.Leslie.Len and Bernard 8)James married ? Had 1 daughter Patricia 9) Elizabeth born 1901 married Samuel Kay died 18th April 1982 aged 80 Buried at St Helens Cemetary Elizabeth ran a store from her front room in Grafton Street They had 5 children a) William b) Theresa born 22.01.1923 c) Mary 'Audrey' born 25.08.1929 d) Rene e) Samuel born 24.05.1940 10) Possibly Harlod ?? Any help would really be appreciated. Unfortunately my grandmother died some 7 years ago and finding her family is really hard as no other additional infomation has been found